Dom Sub Devotion Starting A Dom/sub Dynamic? 10 tips to help it go well
You're bringing D/s into your relationship, and you have no idea where to start. Or maybe you've been trying to make this work and something just isn't clicking.
This episode covers the ten most important things I've learned in seven years of living a 24/7 D/s dynamic and five years of coaching thousands of people through this transition.
These aren't theories. This is what actually works when you're building dominance and submission into a real relationship with real responsibilities and real challenges.
The 10 Tips:
- One person always wants it more (and how to handle that imbalance)
- The submissive cannot lead the Dominant
- Go slow if you want to go far
- Build in time to be human
- Have deep conversations before you write a contract
- Consent is everything (and more complex than you think)
- Meet resistance with curiosity, not force
- Integrate the dynamic into your whole life
- Keep dating each other
- Just keep going
Bonus: How good can this get? (The mantra that changed everything)
Courses Mentioned in This Episode
Structuring Your D/s Dynamic - Build your own contract, rules, rituals, and code of conduct that actually work for your relationship and your life. Https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic
Rapture - The complete A to Z. 20 hours of everything we know about building 24/7 loving D/s relationships. Sexual, spiritual, Dominant and submissive perspectives, all in one place. infinitedevotion.com/rapture
Becoming a Dominant Man - Step into your power and build inner dominance, confidence, and strength as a man. Https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man
Submissive Foundations - Learn what authentic submission actually is and how to embody it in your relationship and your life. infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations
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