Submissives Speak: Heartbreak, Craving, and the Truth About Submission

In this special Q&A episode, Andrew answers real, raw, and vulnerable questions submitted by submissive women from around the world. These are not theoretical musings—they’re lived experiences. Stories of longing, pain, fear, and devotion from women navigating the tension between their deepest cravings and the reality of their relationships.

 

This episode is for everyone—especially Dominant men.

 

Because behind every question is a woman trying to surrender… but finding nowhere safe to land. A woman who wants to obey, to offer herself, to be reshaped… but is met with comparison, neglect, shutdown, or confusion. Andrew shares both practical insights and piercing truth about what it really means to live this lifestyle—and why so many women feel heartbroken in their attempts to do so.

 

Topics include:

 • How to live a D/s dynamic with kids or family at home

 • Navigating kink and submission inside busy or dominant careers

 • What to do when your man says he wants to lead… but doesn’t

 • Dealing with shutdown, trauma, comparison, and inconsistency from a Dom

 • How a woman’s pain and truth can shape a man—not destroy him

 • Whether expressing deep emotions is disrespectful

 • The fine line between surrender and self-abandonment

 • What to do when it’s time to walk away

 

And so much more.

 

This episode is as much a mirror as it is a guide.

It is a call to women to keep feeling, keep expressing, and never submit to what is not worthy.

And it is a challenge to men: If you want her to submit, be a man she can safely surrender to. 

 

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🔗 Mentioned in this episode: 

 • Becoming a Dominant Man course

 • Free “Unshakeable” email series for Dominant men

 

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