Are you just being submissive to your childhood? - The cost of unquestioned beliefs on D/s dynamics

Most people are living by rules they never wrote.

Rules about what love should look like. Rules about what makes you a “good person.” Rules about success, morality, sex, and identity.

Most of those rules were handed to you by someone else. Parents. Culture. Religion. People who didn’t even live by those rules themselves. But you’ve built your life on them without ever asking if they’re actually yours.

That’s what this conversation is about: questioning everything.

Not to rebel. Not to burn your life down just to prove a point. But to live in truth. Because if a belief is real, questioning it only makes it stronger. And if it’s not real, you’ve just uncovered a cage you didn’t know you were in. Either way, you win.

In this episode, I share:

• How to tell the difference between truth and programming.

• Why most people avoid questioning beliefs (and why that avoidance costs more than you think).

• The 3 questions that will help you break free from rules that aren’t yours.

• How unexamined beliefs sabotage love, intimacy, and power exchange.

• Why freedom in your inner world will inevitably change your outer world , and why that’s a good thing.

This isn’t theory for me. I’ve lived it in my marriage, in my leadership, in my faith, in my business. Questioning the rules has cost me comfort, image, and entire communities… but it’s given me something much more important: a life that’s actually mine.

If you’ve ever felt like you were playing a role, performing for approval, or building a life that looks good but doesn’t feel right, this episode will hit home.

For more on how I support people in coming home to living a life that's their own, and how that helps you connect in D/s dynamics and deeply polarized relationships, check out https://infinitedevotion.com/store