

10% Happier with Dan Harris
10% Happier
Self-help for smart people. World-class insights and practices from experts in modern science and ancient wisdom. Hosted by veteran journalist and best-selling author, Dan Harris.
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Oct 3, 2022 • 1h 11min
An Episode for Overthinkers | Tuere Sala
Tuere Sala, a seasoned Dharma teacher and former prosecutor, shares her insights on managing overthinking through meditation. She emphasizes that thoughts aren't our enemies but rather natural occurrences to navigate. Sala offers practical strategies to redirect attention from negativity and underscores how recognizing thoughts as sensory experiences can enhance mindfulness. The conversation explores the relationship between identity and thoughts, advocating for self-compassion and living in the present to free ourselves from habitual patterns.

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Sep 28, 2022 • 1h 5min
The 5 Things That Are Ruining Your Meditation (and Your Life) – And How to Handle Them | Bonnie Duran
In this engaging conversation, Bonnie Duran, a Dharma teacher and Director at the University of Washington, delves into the Buddha's five hindrances that obstruct meditation and everyday life. She discusses practical techniques like the RAIN method to help identify these obstacles, including desire and aversion. Duran emphasizes the importance of cultivating mindfulness and compassion, sharing insights on managing negative emotions and enhancing mental clarity. Her unique blend of Buddhism and indigenous practices offers refreshing strategies for personal growth.

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Sep 26, 2022 • 57min
How To Stop Living An Artificial Life | Karen Armstrong
Karen Armstrong, a former nun and renowned author on religion, shares profound insights on shedding self-centeredness to lead a more authentic life. She discusses using nature to boost happiness and offers the Confucian practice of 'quiet sitting' as a transformative tool for awareness and connection. Armstrong reflects on her journey, describing how her nun experience sometimes heightened self-preoccupation. Ultimately, she encourages small acts of kindness as a pathway to ecological consciousness and a deeper appreciation for the sacredness of life.

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Sep 21, 2022 • 59min
The Mental States That Steal Your Calm | Bhikkhu Bodhi
In a fascinating discussion, esteemed Buddhist scholar and monk Bhikkhu Bodhi dives into the importance of mindfulness in recognizing and managing our mental states. He explains the concept of 'mindfulness of mind' and how it can help us detach from negative emotions like anger and fear. Bhikkhu shares insights from the Satipatthana Sutta, discussing its relevance in meditation practices and the distinctions between calm and insight meditation. He emphasizes the need for self-observation and gentle awareness to foster a balanced and empathetic approach to mindfulness.

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Sep 19, 2022 • 1h 4min
Messiness Is Not a Moral Failing | KC Davis
KC Davis, a TikTok sensation and author of 'How to Keep House While Drowning,' dives into the stigma around housework. She emphasizes that messiness isn’t a moral failing, urging listeners to view chores as neutral tasks rather than obligations. Davis shares practical strategies for rethinking domestic expectations, stressing self-compassion over perfectionism. Her mantra, 'Your space exists to serve you,' encourages a more relaxed approach to maintaining a home, ultimately promoting the idea that personal well-being should take priority over societal standards.

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Sep 16, 2022 • 1h 1min
Malcolm Gladwell on: Working From Home, Kindness, Sacrifice, and Making Mistakes
Malcolm Gladwell, acclaimed author and podcast host, engages in a thought-provoking conversation on the merits of working in an office versus remote work. He discusses the backlash to his views and emphasizes the importance of kindness and sacrifice in today's corporate culture. Gladwell reflects on his 10,000 hours theory, his biggest journalistic mistake, and the necessity of understanding diverse perspectives. The dialogue also touches on lessons from historical injustices and the mental health challenges faced by athletes, offering listeners valuable insights for personal growth.

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Sep 14, 2022 • 1h 2min
Unhappiness Is Not a Life Sentence | Christina Feldman
In this insightful discussion, Christina Feldman, a revered dharma teacher and co-founder of Gaia House, dives into the transformative power of mindfulness. She explains the Buddhist concept of 'vedana'—the emotional tones that shape our experiences. Feldman emphasizes how recognizing pleasant, unpleasant, and neutral feelings can liberate us from being controlled by them. By cultivating awareness and intentionality, we can turn unhappiness into a manageable challenge, enabling a deeper appreciation of life and promoting genuine happiness from within.

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Sep 12, 2022 • 1h 2min
Why You’re Not Seeing the World Clearly— and How to Fix It | Jessica Nordell
Jessica Nordell, an award-winning science journalist and author of "The End of Bias, A Beginning," dives into the science behind our biases and how they shape our perceptions. She discusses why popular strategies for confronting biases often fail and offers insights into the physiological effects of challenging these biases. The conversation emphasizes the role of mindfulness and loving-kindness in fostering self-awareness and reducing prejudice, urging listeners to embrace inclusive practices in their personal and professional lives.

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Sep 7, 2022 • 55min
What "Getting Out of Your Head" Actually Means | Dawn Mauricio
In this enlightening discussion, meditation teacher Dawn Mauricio shares insights from her journey since 2005 and her expertise from Spirit Rock’s training program. She explains the importance of getting out of our heads and into our bodies, offering practical steps to enhance bodily awareness. The conversation delves into how mindfulness can transform emotional challenges, especially anger, into manageable sensations. Dawn also emphasizes the need for mindful interactions in today’s tech-driven world, advocating for a deeper connection with our physical selves.

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Sep 5, 2022 • 1h 7min
How to Deal With Emotionally Immature People (Including Maybe Your Own Parents) | Lindsay C. Gibson
Lindsay C. Gibson, a clinical psychologist and author, dives into the complexities of dealing with emotionally immature people, particularly parents. She highlights the signs of emotional immaturity and discusses coping strategies for those raised by such individuals. The conversation covers the impact of these relationships on adult life, the phenomenon of healing fantasies, and the importance of boundary-setting. Gibson emphasizes the role of self-awareness and compassion, offering listeners valuable tools for healthier interactions.