

The KYLO Show
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Welcome to The KYLO Show, a weekly podcast hosted by Danny Silk and Brittney Serpell. Join us as we answer your questions and share practical tools for building and protecting healthy relationships. This podcast is your guide for how to Keep Your Love On no matter what and pass on legacy to the next generation. Tune in to discover how whole healthy families are going to save the world!
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Dec 29, 2025 • 26min
When Success Covers Relational Disconnection
Dive into the complexities of leadership as it transcends stages and platforms, deeply impacting personal relationships. Discover how success can often hide internal struggles like disconnection and loneliness. The hosts share insights on the importance of honesty and vulnerability, especially for high-capacity leaders. Learn why embracing feedback is crucial, and the cost of isolation that leads to burnout. Reflect on the vital need for internal alignment to match external success while prioritizing family and connection.
Dec 15, 2025 • 22min
Correction, Connection, and Calling Boys to Become Men
This lively conversation tackles the tricky terrain of correction in relationships and how to engage with hypersensitivity. It emphasizes setting connection goals over mere agreement and offers strategies to prevent venting from spiraling into gossip. Listeners learn how to instill a culture of revival in the workplace and the importance of modeling healthy masculinity. The hosts highlight the significance of brotherhood and accountability in guiding boys toward manhood, infused with humor and practical wisdom throughout.
Dec 1, 2025 • 27min
How to Build a Culture That Heals
Danny and Brittney explore the crisis facing churches today, diving into the perils of king-style leadership that isolates pastors. They discuss the importance of healthy accountability and the dangers of punitive responses in relationships. Insights on offering correction in marriages reveal the need for self-awareness and valuing differences. The hosts differentiate between healthy and toxic shame, emphasizing that true repentance means more than just saying sorry. They provide practical steps to foster truth, trust, and community for healing and restoration.
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Nov 17, 2025 • 25min
Navigating Disconnection in Family, Church, and Leadership
Danny and Brittney Serpell tackle the tough topic of maintaining connections in relationships, even when faced with criticism. They emphasize the importance of communicating needs without demanding change and highlight that true conflict resolution should focus on connection rather than being right. Insights on accountability in church leadership reveal the dangers of unchallenged authority. They also discuss how fostering genuine connection in parenting leads to healthier relationships. Throughout, they model the power of love and personal peace.
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Nov 3, 2025 • 26min
Connection Before Correction: How to Guide Your Kids Without Losing Their Hearts
In a lively discussion, parenting experts tackle the importance of connection over correction. They reveal how to address overcorrected kids and provide insights on engaging reluctant teens. The hosts suggest practical strategies for managing sibling rivalry and fostering reconciliation among siblings. Listeners learn that when kids say 'I don’t know,' it’s often a protective response, which calls for creating a safe environment. The conversation emphasizes leading with humility and repairing trust through genuine connection.
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Oct 20, 2025 • 29min
Launching Kids with Love and Restoring Trust in Family
Explore the nuances of transitioning from parent to consultant as kids grow up. Discover how to maintain connection rather than control as relationships evolve. Gain insights on the supportive role of grandparents, emphasizing indulgence over authority. Learn practical steps for repairing damaged relationships through humility and honest conversations. Uncover ways to foster trust and intimacy in marriage, enhancing emotional connections. Embrace vulnerability and shared truths to strengthen family bonds across generations.
Oct 6, 2025 • 27min
Narcissists, Responsibility, and Big Emotions
In this engaging discussion, the hosts delve into the challenges of dealing with narcissism in relationships, emphasizing that trying to change a partner is often futile. They introduce the KYLO 5 framework to help maintain connection while setting healthy boundaries. The conversation shifts to parenting, highlighting the importance of teaching responsibility in children and validating their emotions. Listeners gain insights into how to handle big emotions and encourage self-control, all while fostering a supportive home environment.
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Sep 22, 2025 • 21min
Humility, Anger, and Parenting Through Disconnection
Dive into the dynamics of humility in marriage, where it serves as a superpower to de-escalate conflict and rebuild trust. Discover how immediacy in addressing disconnection can prevent emotional fires from spreading. Explore practical strategies for managing anger and recognizing the hurt that underlies it. Learn the evolving roles of parents as they transition from leaders to coaches with their teens and adult children, emphasizing empowerment and trust over control. Transformative truths and relatable stories make this discussion essential for navigating relationships.
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Sep 8, 2025 • 27min
Hosting God at Home and Healing in Marriage
Discover how to invite God into your home through creativity and playfulness, enriching your family's spiritual growth. The conversation dives into cultivating healthy communication and boundaries in relationships, promoting love over fear. Learn to navigate deeper issues with respect and understanding, and respond to triggers with humility. The Kylo Five model offers practical tools for intentional interactions. Embrace a dynamic approach to faith that thrives in everyday moments, transforming ordinary life into a powerful spiritual journey.
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Aug 25, 2025 • 24min
The Five Words That Heal Disconnection
Dive into a heartfelt conversation about healing disconnection in relationships. Discover five key words that can transform communication and foster connection. Explore the importance of personal accountability and vulnerability in mending rifts. The discussion shifts to understanding God as a nurturing figure, reshaping narratives of earning love. Personal stories reveal the profound impact of father-daughter connections in spiritual growth. Packed with insights and practical tools, this dialogue offers a path to deeper connections with God and loved ones.


