The KYLO Show

In this heartfelt and unfiltered episode from their stop in North Tonawanda, Danny and Brittney Serpell dive deep into some of the hardest relational dynamics—what to do when connection seems impossible. From family members who resist correction to church leaders who reject feedback, this episode explores how to keep your love on when everything in you wants to shut down. Through honest audience questions and raw discussion, Danny and Brittney model what it means to stay powerful, protect your peace, and lead with love in your family, church, and community. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How to communicate needs without demanding behavior change Why your goal in conflict must be connection—not being right What to do when your parent (or child) values control over relationship How to maintain boundaries without turning your love off Why accountability in leadership is essential for a healthy church The difference between harmony and true connection in marriage and parenting Key Takeaways: Love doesn’t require agreement—it requires ownership. You can tell someone what you need without trying to control them. Correction that flows through connection brings change—anything else feels like punishment. When someone chooses being “right” over being in relationship, you still get to choose love and protect your peace. Healthy leadership starts with accountability. If no one can give you feedback, you're not leading—you're ruling. Raising whole and healthy kids is about consistent love, not perfection. Connection, not control, is your greatest legacy. Join the Conversation:Have you struggled to stay connected to a parent, child, or leader who resists feedback? Tell us your story—your vulnerability can inspire healing in others. Stay Connected:Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In a lively discussion, parenting experts tackle the importance of connection over correction. They reveal how to address overcorrected kids and provide insights on engaging reluctant teens. The hosts suggest practical strategies for managing sibling rivalry and fostering reconciliation among siblings. Listeners learn that when kids say 'I don’t know,' it’s often a protective response, which calls for creating a safe environment. The conversation emphasizes leading with humility and repairing trust through genuine connection.

Explore the nuances of transitioning from parent to consultant as kids grow up. Discover how to maintain connection rather than control as relationships evolve. Gain insights on the supportive role of grandparents, emphasizing indulgence over authority. Learn practical steps for repairing damaged relationships through humility and honest conversations. Uncover ways to foster trust and intimacy in marriage, enhancing emotional connections. Embrace vulnerability and shared truths to strengthen family bonds across generations.

In this engaging discussion, the hosts delve into the challenges of dealing with narcissism in relationships, emphasizing that trying to change a partner is often futile. They introduce the KYLO 5 framework to help maintain connection while setting healthy boundaries. The conversation shifts to parenting, highlighting the importance of teaching responsibility in children and validating their emotions. Listeners gain insights into how to handle big emotions and encourage self-control, all while fostering a supportive home environment.

Dive into the dynamics of humility in marriage, where it serves as a superpower to de-escalate conflict and rebuild trust. Discover how immediacy in addressing disconnection can prevent emotional fires from spreading. Explore practical strategies for managing anger and recognizing the hurt that underlies it. Learn the evolving roles of parents as they transition from leaders to coaches with their teens and adult children, emphasizing empowerment and trust over control. Transformative truths and relatable stories make this discussion essential for navigating relationships.

Discover how to invite God into your home through creativity and playfulness, enriching your family's spiritual growth. The conversation dives into cultivating healthy communication and boundaries in relationships, promoting love over fear. Learn to navigate deeper issues with respect and understanding, and respond to triggers with humility. The Kylo Five model offers practical tools for intentional interactions. Embrace a dynamic approach to faith that thrives in everyday moments, transforming ordinary life into a powerful spiritual journey.

Dive into a heartfelt conversation about healing disconnection in relationships. Discover five key words that can transform communication and foster connection. Explore the importance of personal accountability and vulnerability in mending rifts. The discussion shifts to understanding God as a nurturing figure, reshaping narratives of earning love. Personal stories reveal the profound impact of father-daughter connections in spiritual growth. Packed with insights and practical tools, this dialogue offers a path to deeper connections with God and loved ones.

In this special live episode from Springfield, Oregon, Danny and Brittney take audience questions that range from pursuing ministry after a life-changing injury to creating a culture of connection and growth in your home. From practical parenting tips to the power of asking, “How are you experiencing me?”, this episode is full of wisdom, humor, and heartfelt encouragement. Whether you’re building a new path forward or just trying to maintain peace in your household, this episode offers the tools and truth you need to stay connected and keep growing. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How to transition into a ministry career while supporting your family. Why courage is a key part of developing confidence and calling. The importance of unity with your spouse when stepping into ministry. What it means to stay hungry for growth and embrace discomfort. Simple, powerful ways to protect connection in marriage and parenting. Key Takeaways: Commitment precedes courage, and courage builds the confidence needed to follow your calling. Ministry is a team effort—your spouse needs to be fully on board to walk in unity and power. Growth requires discomfort. Staying in the process brings clarity, fruit, and family breakthrough. “How are you experiencing me?” is one of the most transformative questions you can ask in any relationship. In a culture of connection, disconnection is treated like a four-alarm fire—nothing else matters until it’s resolved. Join the Conversation:What stood out to you in this episode? Share your insights on social media, leave a review, or send us a message—we love hearing from you! Stay Connected:Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In the final episode recorded live at Jesus Pursuit Church in Albany, Danny and Brittney tackle two powerful questions. First, they speak directly to foster parents navigating the challenges of building family culture when children come from difficult backgrounds. Then, they offer deep insight into the biblical meaning of “the fear of the Lord,” clarifying how it differs from the fear of punishment. This episode is full of wisdom, practical parenting tools, and spiritual clarity for anyone walking through uncertainty or leadership in their home. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How to create a healthy home culture as a foster or first-time parent. Practical tools for building trust, structure, and stability with a child in transition. The difference between punishment-based parenting and love-based leadership. What the fear of the Lord truly means—and how it leads to wisdom. Why heaven’s justice is always about reconciliation, not punishment. Key Takeaways: Lead on purpose: Whether you're parenting biological or foster children, the culture of your home should be built intentionally, not accidentally. Aim small, miss small: Start with attainable goals and celebrate every win—especially when parenting in difficult circumstances. Punishment isn’t power: True power in parenting and leadership comes from consistent love, not control. Fear of the Lord = fear of disconnection: It’s not about punishment; it’s about protecting your relationship with God. God’s justice reconciles: Unlike the world’s justice that demands retribution, heaven’s justice leads to repentance, reconciliation, and restoration. Join the Conversation: Are you a foster parent or navigating a new season of parenting? Have you wrestled with the meaning of “fear of the Lord”? We’d love to hear your reflections—join the conversation at www.thekyloshow.com. Stay Connected: Website: www.LovingonPurpose.comInstagram: @dannylovingonpurposeInstagram: @brittneyserpell Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Dive into relatable themes like navigating controlling family dynamics and overcoming mom guilt. Discover the power of self-control and the illusions of manipulation. Learn practical tools for setting boundaries and reclaiming your personal power in relationships. Understand the difference between healthy conviction and toxic shame that undermines your worth. This convo encourages you to embrace your role as a parent, flaws and all, while leading with love and truth. Get grounded and empowered!