The KYLO Show Connection Before Correction: How to Guide Your Kids Without Losing Their Hearts
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Nov 3, 2025 In a lively discussion, parenting experts tackle the importance of connection over correction. They reveal how to address overcorrected kids and provide insights on engaging reluctant teens. The hosts suggest practical strategies for managing sibling rivalry and fostering reconciliation among siblings. Listeners learn that when kids say 'I don’t know,' it’s often a protective response, which calls for creating a safe environment. The conversation emphasizes leading with humility and repairing trust through genuine connection.
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Reframe Correction As Wisdom
- Own past mistakes and apologize to reframe correction as wisdom, not punishment.
- Ask your child questions and invite them to make decisions to rebuild engagement and thinking.
Connection Is Primary With Teens
- Connection is the primary currency with adolescents; wisdom follows access to relationship.
- Sacrificing connection for being right yields neither love nor learning.
Prioritize Connection Before Correction
- Check your level of connection before delivering correction and avoid overcorrection.
- Lead with repentance: admit insecurity and choose connection before enforcing standards.
