Navigating Disconnection in Family, Church, and Leadership

In this heartfelt and unfiltered episode from their stop in North Tonawanda, Danny and Brittney Serpell dive deep into some of the hardest relational dynamics—what to do when connection seems impossible. From family members who resist correction to church leaders who reject feedback, this episode explores how to keep your love on when everything in you wants to shut down.

Through honest audience questions and raw discussion, Danny and Brittney model what it means to stay powerful, protect your peace, and lead with love in your family, church, and community.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• How to communicate needs without demanding behavior change

• Why your goal in conflict must be connection—not being right

• What to do when your parent (or child) values control over relationship

• How to maintain boundaries without turning your love off

• Why accountability in leadership is essential for a healthy church

• The difference between harmony and true connection in marriage and parenting

Key Takeaways:

• Love doesn’t require agreement—it requires ownership. You can tell someone what you need without trying to control them.
• Correction that flows through connection brings change—anything else feels like punishment.
• When someone chooses being “right” over being in relationship, you still get to choose love and protect your peace.
• Healthy leadership starts with accountability. If no one can give you feedback, you're not leading—you're ruling.
• Raising whole and healthy kids is about consistent love, not perfection. Connection, not control, is your greatest legacy.

Join the Conversation:
Have you struggled to stay connected to a parent, child, or leader who resists feedback? Tell us your story—your vulnerability can inspire healing in others.

Stay Connected:
Website: www.LovingonPurpose.com
Instagram: @dannylovingonpurpose
Instagram: @brittneyserpell

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