In this engaging discussion, the hosts delve into the challenges of dealing with narcissism in relationships, emphasizing that trying to change a partner is often futile. They introduce the KYLO 5 framework to help maintain connection while setting healthy boundaries. The conversation shifts to parenting, highlighting the importance of teaching responsibility in children and validating their emotions. Listeners gain insights into how to handle big emotions and encourage self-control, all while fostering a supportive home environment.
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volunteer_activism ADVICE
Stop Trying To Fix Others
Do stop trying to fix or change someone else and focus on managing yourself with the KYLO 5 framework.
Use boundaries, respectful communication, connection, power, and choosing love over fear to protect yourself and the relationship.
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Use The KYLO 5
Do practice the KYLO 5: be powerful, choose love over fear, keep connection, use respectful communication, and honor healthy boundaries.
Enforce boundaries by refusing to participate in disrespect or abuse while leaving hope for reconciliation.
insights INSIGHT
Bad Guy Labels Break Relationships
Insight: labeling someone the 'bad guy' creates a victim-good guy-bad guy triangulation that removes responsibility.
Judging others and making them the enemy undermines healthy relationship leadership and growth.
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Live from Risen King Church in Redding, California, Danny and Brittney tackle some of the most asked-about topics in relationships and parenting—including how to deal with someone labeled a narcissist, how to raise responsible children, and how to guide kids through big emotions without losing connection. Whether you're navigating disrespect in your marriage, parenting toddlers with tantrums, or raising teens who resist chores, this episode offers deep wisdom, practical tools, and real talk from two leaders who’ve walked it out.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
Why trying to fix or change someone else (especially a narcissist) is a losing strategy.
How to use the KYLO 5 to protect yourself and preserve connection.
What it really means to set boundaries with love, not rejection.
How to cultivate responsibility in kids through feedback and connection.
Strategies for guiding children through sadness and anger with maturity and empathy.
Key Takeaways:
You can’t change someone who doesn’t think they have a problem—focus on managing yourself.
Boundaries are not punishment; they are a message of hope for reconciliation.
A ten-year-old isn’t too young to begin learning how to steward their part of the relationship.
Emotionally explosive moments are opportunities to teach—not control—your children.
As a parent, your job isn’t to stop emotions but to protect the culture of your home with self-control and leadership.
Join the Conversation: What stood out to you in this episode? Have you been in a relationship where you tried to fix someone? How do you approach parenting through connection rather than control?
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