LOVERS by shan

In this episode of Lovers and Friends, Shan Boodram sits down with Deepica Mutyala, founder of Live Tinted and a trailblazing entrepreneur, for an honest and empowering conversation about being single, thriving in your 30s, and preparing for the love and family you deserve. Deepica shares her journey of building a successful career while staying true to her dreams of finding the right partner and creating a family. Together, Shan and Deepica discuss the challenges of dating when you’re successful, the importance of not settling, and how to embrace being single as a time to grow, reflect, and prepare for the life you truly want. Whether you’re navigating the dating world, focusing on self-growth, or manifesting your dream relationship, this episode will leave you inspired and ready to take on love and life with intention.Thank you BumbleThis episode of Lovers is presented by Bumble who encourages you to date your way. There is a world where you can date exactly who you want, however you want. So date now, on Bumble.Thank you Deepicahttps://www.instagram.com/deepicaGet Live Tintedhttps://www.livetinted.com/Join My Mailing Listhttps://www.loversbyshan.com/newsletterLovers CommunityIf you’re interested in joining the Lovers community click here to join the waitlisthttps://www.loversbyshan.com/communitySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Lena Waithe on Cuddling Over ClimaxingIn this episode of Lovers and Friends, Shan Boodram sits down with Emmy-winning writer, producer, and actress Lena Waithe (Queen & Slim, Master of None, The Chi) for an eye-opening conversation about intimacy, love, and meaningful connections. Lena shares why you should never have sex with someone unless you can imagine a positive aftermath for both of you. She dives into how cuddling can create a deeper emotional bond than sex, especially when the future of a relationship feels uncertain. Lena also opens up about the power of plutonic relationships, revealing why some of her most impactful connections today are non-romantic. With all of the rumors about her love life, Lena sets the record straight and shares what truly matters to her in building authentic connections. This episode will challenge your views on love, intimacy, and boundaries in ways you won’t want to miss!Thank you BumbleThis episode of Lovers is presented by Bumble who encourages you to date your way. There is a world where you can date exactly who you want, however you want. So date now, on Bumble.Thank you Lenahttps://www.instagram.com/lenawaithe/Legacy Talk Podcasthttps://lemonada.lnk.to/LegacyTalkWithLenaWaithehs?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaZR0rgZOhMXnR_1HkQjiKfKa5_UUPHcXYlKFCmzjhKgXdje2qDlp8lbhmg_aem_wULmegwSQB8ct8zEmMkQfgJoin My Mailing Listhttps://www.loversbyshan.com/newsletterLovers CommunityIf you’re interested in joining the Lovers community click here to join the waitlisthttps://www.loversbyshan.com/communitySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What kind of relationship with sex do we want young people to have? In this episode myself and Tika Sumpter, known for her multifaceted career as an actor and creator, explore this question as parents and as people reparenting themselves. In this episode Tika shares her compelling personal story that shaped her approach to intimacy and education. Growing up in a Christian household, discussions about sex were often avoided or framed solely around negative consequences. This instilled fear and confusion about her own sexuality during her teenage years. In her twenties, Tika found herself navigating relationships without a clear understanding of her body or pleasure, often pretending to have a sexual IQ she hadn't yet developed. Therapy became a turning point, helping her reconnect with herself and embrace her sexual identity.Now, as a mother, Tika is determined to break this cycle for her daughter. On this episode, she opens up about her journey and shares how she is redefining sex and intimacy education in her household. Her goal is to raise her daughter to be a sexually and relationally competent individual, equipped with the tools and knowledge Tika wishes she had earlier in life.Tika is best known for her work on screen but did you know she also makes children’s content? She is the creator of The Adventures of Curious Cove, a podcast anchored by the beloved series Ella the Curious. This project reflects her passion for storytelling and education, making complex topics accessible and engaging for young audiences.Thank you BumbleThis episode of Lovers is presented by Bumble who encourages you to date your way. There is a world where you can date exactly who you want, however you want. So date now, on Bumble.Thank you TikaPreorder Tika's upcoming book!https://tinyurl.com/I-Got-It-From-My-Mama-Bookhttps://www.instagram.com/tikasumpterhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/adventures-of-curiosity-cove/id1760587303Age by Age Sexual Development GuideAs per Tika’s request…loversbyshan.com/quizzesJoin My Mailing Listhttps://www.loversbyshan.com/newsletterLovers CommunityIf you’re interested in joining the Lovers community click here to join the waitlisthttps://www.loversbyshan.com/communitySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this deeply personal episode presented by Bumble, singer Mario opens up about the profound impact of unresolved trauma stemming from his relationship with his mother. He shares how this pain shaped his early behavior towards women, leading to manipulation and broken connections. Mario takes us on his journey of self-reflection, healing, and ultimately embracing his inner feminine energy—a process that not only reshaped his relationships but also elevated his personal growth and artistry.As Mario gets real about accountability, self-love, and the power of healing, he also introduces us to his latest album, "Glad You Came"—a soulful and vulnerable collection of music inspired by his life experiences and growth. Tune in for an honest, thought-provoking conversation that dives into the intersections of trauma, love, and creativity.Don't miss this inspiring episode and be sure to check out Mario's new album, "Glad You Came," now streaming on all platforms!Thank you BumbleThis episode of Lovers is presented by Bumble who encourages you to date your way. There is a world where you can date exactly who you want, however you want. So date now, on Bumble.Thank you MarioInstagram.com/marioworldwide Glad You Came, streaming everywhere you listen to musicThank you AryaA couples subscription service that helps you spice it up with the help of an intimacy concierge, an app and products delivered to your doorhttps://www.arya.fyi/shanMy class on MasterClassIf you’d like tangible tips for improving your relationship with sex AND your sex appeal. I HIGHLY recommend checking out my class on MasterClass the Art of Sex Appealmasterclass.com/shanJoin My Mailing Listhttps://www.loversbyshan.com/newsletterLovers CommunityIf you’re interested in joining the Lovers community click here to join the waitlisthttps://www.loversbyshan.com/communitySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Beyond Pleasure: Three Keys to Truly Fulfilling SexSex is at the intersection of life and humanity. For the majority of us, it’s how we got here and for parents, it’s how we will continue on after we are gone. We often hear the term “better” sex, which begs two questions: what does that mean? And, why is the sex we are currently having not good enough?In this episode we will define the goal of sex - regardless of the stage of the relationship and we will also discuss what prevents us from having sex that lives up to our desired potential. I’m going to take you on a journey as we explore the three sexual freedoms. Starting with discussing the power of freedom to, which I think describes the stage that myself and my husband/ the creative director of this podcast, Jared Brady are in. Then freedom from, which I discuss with my friends Yancy and Premika Leo. Finally we will talk about the Freedom not to, which I explore with my Lovers Community.Thank you BumbleThis episode of Lovers is presented by Bumble who encourages you to date your way. There is a world where you can date exactly who you want, however you want. So date now, on Bumble.My class on MasterClassIf you’d like tangible tips for improving your relationship with sex AND your sex appeal. I HIGHLY recommend checking out my class on MasterClass the Art of Sex Appealmasterclass.com/shanBetter Sex QuizIf you want to know which freedom you should focus on in order to improve your sex life today, try this quizhttps://www.loversbyshan.com/resource/bettersexCommitment Structure QuizIf Shan and Jared’s conversation around open relationships intrigued you, take this quiz to identify your commitment structurehttps://www.loversbyshan.com/resource/commitmentJoin My Mailing Listhttps://www.loversbyshan.com/newsletterLovers CommunityIf you’re interested in joining the Lovers community click here to join the waitlisthttps://www.loversbyshan.com/communitySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Join Kerry Washington, the acclaimed actor and activist known for her powerful roles and memoir, alongside relationship expert Tracy McMillan. They discuss the transformative impact of uncovering family secrets and emphasize the importance of vulnerability in building deeper connections. Kerry shares insights on therapy in her family dynamics and her parenting philosophy, while also touching on intimacy, sexuality, and the benefits of pole dancing. The conversation delves into the healing power of personal narratives and the complexities of navigating relationships.

Kelly Rowland, you read right. This is a CAN NOT MISS, special release Lovers and Friends episode with Shan Boodram AND it is best experienced after you watch Mea Culpa now streaming worldwide on Netflix. In this intimate, first-of-its-kind conversation Kelly Rowland shares how she went from a sexually repressed upbringing to living up to her pleasure potential as a sensualist, plus how her sexual awakening gave her the confidence to play Mea in Mea Clupa alongside Trevante Rhodes, whom she shares very STEAMY sex scenes with on screen. Kelly also discusses her feelings on divorce, kink, toys in the bedroom, and overcoming the fear of being imperfect.Watch the trailer to Mea Culpahttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-p0g9YfjJSAFollow Kelly https://www.instagram.com/kellyrowland/https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-p0g9YfjJSAThanks to Our Sponsors DAMEHead to http://dame.com at dame.com and if you’d like to pick something up, my code SHANLOVERS gets you 15% off at checkoutARYA Head to http://arya.fyi to learn how they’re helping couples break their sexual routine and if you’re interested in trying it code SHAN15 gets you 15% off nowFollow Shanhttp://instagram.com/shanboodramSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Welcome to (some of) the best of Lovers and Friends the podcast. Hear from JESSIE REYES, MELISSA AND KEV OnSTAGE, ABBY DE LA ROSA, SHANOLA HAMPTON, TIM Chantrangsu aka DE LA GHETTO, DREW LOVE from THEY, RACHEL LINDSAY and GLO ATANMO during this special recap episode.THANKS TO OUR SPONSORONSEKINGo to http://oneskin.co and 15% off with code LOVERS15GLO ATANMOhttps://youtu.be/lbIaM09t0ZU?si=GtWZkCBspPlmUA8fhttps://open.spotify.com/episode/1W4xrpdCh0V3OwXZCYt1bO?si=mJNj1rxcQ7a333AUmgsqMAJESSIE REYEShttps://youtu.be/7IbgI3-s7Ps?si=j0CL3b8gYqsNbqFehttps://open.spotify.com/episode/2w3jYgkVIgg2eQoYWuALhp?si=8q3ptyfKQbWn9FrrY3bZTAMELISSA AND KEVhttps://youtu.be/hrMVcujhg1A?si=idb7xnDq8TX1aBh_https://open.spotify.com/episode/4NjXUyZ5suDL3ytxUALFV8?si=gg3B7zvfQnm5nS9XUpkyZAABBY DE LA ROSAhttps://youtu.be/aq8290G52_I?si=oaI5d_ALvuj82z9Vhttps://open.spotify.com/episode/5AM2X8zNwmgV3koVtgemPC?si=pzqGDEw3QMCe8Awx9eFK7QSHANOLA HAMPTONhttps://youtu.be/J7PZakvvdCo?si=LDSbtyjNTKuNmZ1uhttps://open.spotify.com/episode/2pHr7jrSj7iQTZlsbIUoYV?si=-pk8WovdSbqLLyrXDrRpRgTIM DE LA GHETTOhttps://youtu.be/G6WYaHFOjEU?si=uDvI7cap3yCs0srqhttps://open.spotify.com/episode/0VuY52Ct9XS9Wua4dtupO6?si=ZFMbJEQOQ56IuBADlxm8ogDREW LOVEhttps://youtu.be/bdooXjRGprY?si=AG3KL1r-wAfeb8Gmhttps://open.spotify.com/episode/39lGd7mxW9jvpGpOPYMKaj?si=ou8FILHeSGG7P21hCZwMogRACHEL LINDSAYhttps://youtu.be/bnEORZJD2pQ?si=LiHiZKFU1-_Cv8l6https://open.spotify.com/episode/1kN3P1KoHI3LcnLNRgzY76?si=faUIGN4ATUaLvewVQ3AjCQHELP WHY CAN’T I ORGASMhttps://open.spotify.com/episode/2X8oEJMQ8JNSu6Psa53r7O?si=wJMEWu6vTmGpia1waTZ0SwSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dating coach Damona Hoffman challenges traditional dating norms and encourages listeners to prioritize personal happiness over fairy tale ideals. The podcast explores defining a true fairytale relationship, debunking outdated partner ideals, and redefining happiness in modern relationships. It highlights the importance of mindful partner selection, authenticity, and shared values in building fulfilling connections.

Mal Wright, featured on Netflix's The Ultimatum, shares her story of ending her engagement, challenging gender norms. Topics include embracing masculinity and femininity, exploring authenticity in reality TV, navigating relationship complexity, breaking gender norms in intimate relationships, and exploring masculine/feminine dynamics in the bedroom.