The Everyday Stoic

Click here to check out HUEL: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://my.huel.com/mulliganbros⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠#ad In today's episode, William delves into the deceptive world of social media and its impact on our happiness and self-worth. He begins by emphasizing that those seemingly perfect lives we see online are often just well-marketed facades, not reflections of true contentment or success. Understanding that these images are curated to present an idealized version of reality can help us focus on our own character and find the life we truly want to live. William shares a personal story about a friend who lost his joy by trying to emulate the glamorous lives he saw on social media. This comparison led him to feel empty and disconnected from his true self. By deleting social media and stopping the comparison, his friend eventually rediscovered his passion and zest for life. The episode highlights how our obsession with online personas can undermine our real-life happiness, pushing us to strive for an unattainable image rather than focusing on our own authentic lives. Drawing on Stoic principles, William reminds us that comparison is the thief of joy. Instead of measuring ourselves against others, we should concentrate on our own character and virtues. By understanding what we can control—our actions, reactions, and mindset—we can cultivate true happiness and inner peace. He advocates for reducing social media consumption or using it more mindfully, focusing on its educational and communicative benefits rather than letting it dictate our self-worth.

Click here to check out HUEL: ⁠⁠⁠https://my.huel.com/mulliganbros⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠#ad In this episode, William explores PewDiePie's reflections on a break-in at his home and the deeper philosophical insights it inspired. PewDiePie shares how the incident led him to declutter his life, embracing a minimalist approach reminiscent of the ancient Greek philosopher Diogenes. William delves into the life and teachings of Diogenes, a Cynic who famously lived with minimal possessions and rejected societal norms. Through stories of Diogenes' interactions with Alexander the Great and Plato, listeners are invited to consider the value of living according to nature and focusing on what truly matters. Join William as he draws parallels between modern experiences and ancient wisdom, showing how unexpected events can lead to profound personal growth. Embrace the lessons of Diogenes and discover the freedom that comes with simplicity and detachment from material possessions. Tune in and find inspiration to live a more meaningful, Stoic life.

Click here to check out HUEL: ⁠⁠https://my.huel.com/mulliganbros⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠#ad In this episode, William explores how to respond to haters by drawing on the wisdom of the ancient Stoics - Epictetus, Seneca, and Marcus Aurelius. Discover how these philosophical masters maintained their inner peace and resilience in the face of criticism and negativity. By seeing negative remarks as natural parts of life and opportunities for growth, the Stoics teach us to transform haters' words into stepping stones for personal development. William explains the importance of focusing on what you can control: your actions and reactions. The Stoics believed that you control your inner fortress, so don't let negative comments invade your peace. Understand that haters' actions are beyond your control and often stem from their own insecurities and jealousies. By differentiating between constructive criticism and baseless negativity, you can use the former to improve and dismiss the latter as irrelevant. Tune in to embrace the Stoic way of handling negativity and become invincible to haters.

Click here to check out HUEL: ⁠https://my.huel.com/mulliganbros⁠ ⁠⁠⁠#ad In today’s episode, William explores five surefire ways to ensure lifelong misery. By examining common behaviours that lead to unhappiness, he offers a fresh perspective on how to live a more fulfilling life. The first step to misery, he explains, is constantly comparing yourself to others. This habit, exacerbated by social media, fosters envy and dissatisfaction as we chase after lives that are often just carefully curated illusions. William then discusses the importance of gratitude. Removing gratitude from your life will quickly lead to a negative mindset and a sense of lack. Instead of appreciating what you have, you focus on what you don’t, making true happiness elusive. Another step to guaranteed misery is thinking you know better than everyone else. William uses the example of Marcus Aurelius, who, despite his greatness, always remained humble and open to learning from others. The episode also covers the dangers of staying closed-minded. This mindset keeps you stuck, preventing personal growth and keeping you miserable. Lastly, William talks about the comfort zone. While it might seem safe, remaining comfortable prevents you from truly expressing yourself and finding fulfilment. By facing discomfort, you can release your true self and achieve real freedom. Join William as he flips conventional wisdom on its head, showing how recognizing and avoiding these negative behaviours can lead to a more joyful and meaningful life. Tune in and start your journey toward happiness by understanding what not to do.

Click here to check out HUEL: https://my.huel.com/mulliganbros ⁠⁠⁠#ad In today's episode, William explores the question: What is more important, your mind or your muscles? He argues that while many people dedicate hours each week to physical fitness, they often neglect mental workouts. The Stoics believed that the mind is our most vital tool and should be exercised with even greater diligence than the body. William emphasizes that just as physical strength diminishes without regular exercise, so too does mental strength. William introduces the idea of creating mental workout plans, similar to physical ones, focusing on four key areas: growth, good nature, resilience, and greatness. He shares his personal journey of overcoming the fear of public speaking through a structured plan of small, consistent actions. By setting clear goals and breaking them down into manageable steps, anyone can build mental strength and character. He also discusses the importance of virtues such as wisdom, courage, temperance, and justice in daily life. By consciously practicing these virtues, and reflecting on our actions, we can develop a good nature. To build resilience, he suggests incorporating voluntary discomfort into our routines, such as cold showers or fasting, to strengthen our mental toughness. Finally, William encourages listeners to seek out their personal challenges and confront them directly. This practice of facing fears head-on leads to true greatness and self-improvement. He reminds us that growth comes from action, not just from consuming information.

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William Mulligan, a Stoic philosophy enthusiast, discusses overcoming regret and learning from past mistakes. He explores the detrimental effects of dwelling on past errors and offers practical strategies for breaking free from the cycle of regret. William emphasizes the importance of living in the present moment, trusting the process, and embracing life's unpredictability to prevent future regrets.