The Blueprint

Jason Smith
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Jan 19, 2026 • 1h 3min

Ep. 134 The Crisis of Connection: Reclaiming Our Voice in 2026, Nick Pollard

Send us a textIn this conversation, Nick Pollard and Jason Smith explore the impact of AI on authenticity in content creation, the challenges faced in the coaching landscape, and the importance of in-person connections. They discuss the shift from social media to more meaningful interactions, the repetitive nature of content creation, and the need for integration over mere consumption of knowledge. The conversation emphasizes the value of storytelling, community feedback, and the evolution of personal branding in the coaching industry.Connect with Nick: Nick's Website  TakeawaysAI is impacting the authenticity of content creation.Creativity is being outsourced to AI tools.The coaching landscape is becoming saturated and competitive.In-person connections are becoming more valuable than online interactions.Content creation can feel repetitive and uninspired.The personal growth industry is often seen as a cash grab.Integration of knowledge is more important than consumption.Workshops and in-person events may be the future of coaching.Storytelling is essential for building connections.Feedback from the community is crucial for growth.Apply for 1:1 Relational Intelligence Coaching: If you’re ready to stop managing other people's resistance and start mastering your own mechanics, apply for 1:1 coaching here: 👉 https://real-jasonsmith.carrd.co/Join the Community on Substack: Read the full articles and get deeper insights into Relational Intelligence: 👉  https://substack.com/@theblueprintpodcast Connect with Jason: Instagram: @jbirdfit YouTube: youtube.com/@JbirdfitLeave a Question for the Show: Submit your questions here: https://stan.store/JbirdfitFor coaching, media, or collaboration inquiries: 📧 info.jbirdfit@gmail.comDisclaimer:The content of this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or therapy. Always consult a qualified healthcare provider with any questions regarding your physical or mental health.If you are in crisis or need immediate support, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, or visit 988lifeline.org. You are not alone.Support the show
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Jan 15, 2026 • 7min

Ep. 133 Anxious Attachment and the "Power of One": Reclaiming Your Emotional Freedom

Send us a textPeople are so eager to change others that they forget a critical question: Does the other person even want to change?In this episode, Jason Smith explores the concept of "relational blindness" and why anxiously attached individuals get stuck trying to fix their partners instead of mastering their own inner world. We discuss the sobering reality of Sonder, the grief of letting go of someone's "potential," and why change always starts "By the One."Key Topics:Why "fixing" others is a survival strategy for the anxiously attached.Learning to love people for who they are today, not who they could be.Shifting from a "survival state" to a state of flow and emotional freedom.How to reclaim your authority and clean up your side of the street.Apply for 1:1 Relational Intelligence Coaching: If you’re ready to stop managing other people's resistance and start mastering your own mechanics, apply for 1:1 coaching here: 👉 https://real-jasonsmith.carrd.co/Join the Community on Substack: Read the full articles and get deeper insights into Relational Intelligence: 👉  https://substack.com/@theblueprintpodcast Connect with Jason: Instagram: @jbirdfit YouTube: youtube.com/@JbirdfitLeave a Question for the Show: Submit your questions here: https://stan.store/JbirdfitFor coaching, media, or collaboration inquiries: 📧 info.jbirdfit@gmail.comDisclaimer:The content of this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or therapy. Always consult a qualified healthcare provider with any questions regarding your physical or mental health.If you are in crisis or need immediate support, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, or visit 988lifeline.org. You are not alone.Support the show
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Nov 24, 2025 • 1h 2min

Ep. 132 How To Be A Friend with Barnet Bain

Send us a textIn this conversation, Barnet Bain discusses the themes of friendship, self-discovery, and the importance of authenticity in relationships. He reflects on his personal journey of realizing the need for deeper connections and the role of vulnerability and awareness in fostering meaningful friendships. The discussion emphasizes the significance of listening, honoring others, and the challenges of performance in social interactions. Barnet also highlights the necessity of creating safe spaces in friendships and the transformative power of being present with others. TakeawaysFriendship requires active care and attention, much like a garden.Awareness of one's own judgments is crucial for personal growth.Honor in relationships means being willing to be changed by others.Civility and friendship are lacking in modern society.Vulnerability is essential for deep connections.Choosing friends involves understanding one's own values and history.Authenticity fosters genuine relationships and trust.Leave a Question for the Show:Got a question or topic you want featured on The Blueprint Podcast? Submit it here: https://stan.store/JbirdfitAbout This Community:The Blueprint Coaching™ Community was created for people rebuilding their lives — after heartbreak, loss, career shifts, or seasons that forced them to start over. It’s for anyone who wants stronger relationships, clearer direction, and a deeper sense of who they are.If you found this podcast through my “Take a Walk With Me” videos, you already know what to expect: honest conversations, grounded insight, and the kind of straight talk that gets you moving again. Listeners often say this show gave them the clarity to change their relationships, rebuild their confidence, or see themselves in a completely new way.This isn’t about quick fixes or surface motivation. It’s about letting go of the old blueprint that’s kept you stuck — and learning how to rebuild with purpose, confidence, and integrity.If you’re ready to take that next step, start with The Self-Discovery Blueprint, The 21-Day Love and Abundance Challenge, or apply for 1:1 Coaching. Every program is built to help you do the real work — the kind that transforms who you are and how you live.Learn More Here: https://stan.store/Jbirdfit  Connect & Stay Involved:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Jbirdfit Facebook: facebook.com/Jbirdfit3Instagram: instagram.com/jbirdfitTikTok: tiktok.com/@jbirdfitFor coaching, media, or collaboration inquiries: 📧 info.jbirdfit@gmail.comDisclaimer:The content of this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or therapy. Always consult a qualified healthcare provider with any questions regarding your physical or mental health.If you are in crisis or need immediate support, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, or visit 988lifeline.org. You are not alone.Support the show
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Nov 19, 2025 • 51min

Ep. 131 Healing Anxious Attachment with Trevor Hanson

Send us a textIn this conversation, Trevor Hansen discusses the complexities of attachment styles, particularly focusing on how individuals can earn a secure attachment style through emotional experiences and self-awareness. He emphasizes the importance of self-compassion in overcoming insecurities that often hinder relationships. TakeawaysInsecurity often underlies many relationship challenges.Attachment styles can be learned or earned through emotional experiences.Self-compassion is crucial for healing attachment issues.Awareness alone does not lead to change; action is necessary.Setting boundaries is essential for self-respect in relationships.Anxious attachment can trigger avoidant behaviors in others.Effective communication is vital for relationship success.Connect with Trevor:Website: https://theartofhealingbytrevor.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theartofhealingbytrevor/Free! From Anxious to Secure Seminar: https://theartofhealingbytrevor.com/from-anxious-to-secureThe Secure Self Club (Go from Anxious to Secure in 120 days): https://theartofhealingbytrevor.com/sscLeave a Question for the Show:Got a question or topic you want featured on The Blueprint Podcast? Submit it here: https://stan.store/JbirdfitAbout This Community:The Blueprint Coaching™ Community was created for people rebuilding their lives — after heartbreak, loss, career shifts, or seasons that forced them to start over. It’s for anyone who wants stronger relationships, clearer direction, and a deeper sense of who they are.If you found this podcast through my “Take a Walk With Me” videos, you already know what to expect: honest conversations, grounded insight, and the kind of straight talk that gets you moving again. Listeners often say this show gave them the clarity to change their relationships, rebuild their confidence, or see themselves in a completely new way.This isn’t about quick fixes or surface motivation. It’s about letting go of the old blueprint that’s kept you stuck — and learning how to rebuild with purpose, confidence, and integrity.Learn More Here: https://stan.store/Jbirdfit  Connect & Stay Involved:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Jbirdfit Facebook: facebook.com/Jbirdfit3Instagram: instagram.com/jbirdfitTikTok: tiktok.com/@jbirdfitFor coaching, media, or collaboration inquiries: 📧 info.jbirdfit@gmail.comDisclaimer:The content of this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or therapy. Always consult a qualified healthcare provider with any questions regarding your physical or mental health.If you are in crisis or need immediate support, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, or visit 988lifeline.org. You are not alone.Support the show
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Nov 7, 2025 • 11min

Ep. 130 Secure Dating Avoidant Now I'm Anxious?

Send us a textIn this conversation, Jason Smith discusses the dynamics of attachment styles in relationships, particularly how securely attached individuals can develop anxious tendencies when paired with avoidant partners. He emphasizes the role of social media in shaping perceptions and labels in dating, urging listeners to look beyond surface-level feelings and understand the deeper emotional contexts of their partners.TakeawaysSecurely attached individuals can show signs of anxious attachment.Dating an avoidant partner can trigger insecurities.Social media influences how we label others in relationships.It's important to delve deeper into a partner's emotional state.Labels can oversimplify complex emotional dynamics.Curiosity about a partner's feelings is crucial.Understanding attachment styles can improve relationship dynamics.Emotional intelligence plays a key role in dating.Avoiding assumptions can lead to healthier relationships.Recognizing one's own attachment style is essential for growth.Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Blueprint Podcast00:05 Understanding Attachment Styles00:41 Navigating Anxious and Avoidant DynamicsLeave a Question for the Show: Got a question or topic you want featured on The Blueprint Podcast? Submit it here: https://stan.store/JbirdfitAbout This Community: The Blueprint Coaching™ Community was created for people rebuilding their lives — after heartbreak, loss, career shifts, or seasons that forced them to start over. It’s for anyone who wants stronger relationships, clearer direction, and a deeper sense of who they are.If you found this podcast through my “Take a Walk With Me” videos, you already know what to expect: honest conversations, grounded insight, and the kind of straight talk that gets you moving again. Listeners often say this show gave them the clarity to change their relationships, rebuild their confidence, or see themselves in a completely new way.This isn’t about quick fixes or surface motivation. It’s about letting go of the old blueprint that’s kept you stuck — and learning how to rebuild with purpose, confidence, and integrity.If you’re ready to take that next step, start with The Self-Discovery Blueprint, The 21-Day Love and Abundance Challenge, or apply for 1:1 Coaching. Every program is built to help you do the real work — the kind that transforms who you are and how you live.Learn More Here: https://stan.store/Jbirdfit  Connect & Stay Involved:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Jbirdfit  Facebook: facebook.com/Jbirdfit3Instagram: instagram.com/jbirdfitTikTok: tiktok.com/@jbirdfitFor coaching, media, or collaboration inquiries: 📧 info.jbirdfit@gmail.comDisclaimer: The content of this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or therapy. Always consult a qualified healthcare provider with any questions regarding your physical or mental health.If you are in crisis or need immediate support, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, or visit 988lifeline.org. You are not alone.Support the show
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Nov 5, 2025 • 9min

Ep. 129 Ready to Start Dating Again?

Send us a textIn this conversation, Jason Smith discusses the pivotal moment when individuals consider re-entering the dating scene. He emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and understanding one's goals, values, and standards in relationships, particularly in the context of modern dating.TakeawaysPeople often ask when they are ready to start dating again.The contemplation phase is crucial for readiness.Understanding your goals and values is essential.Self-discovery plays a key role in dating.The modern dating world requires a new version of yourself.Reflecting on past experiences can guide future relationships.It's important to know what you want in a partner.Personal growth influences dating readiness.Setting standards can lead to healthier relationships.Embracing change is part of the dating journey.Leave a Question for the podcast: https://stan.store/Jbirdfit Welcome to The Blueprint Coaching™ Coaching CommunityThis community is designed for individuals ready to break old patterns, build confidence, and create secure, empowered relationships with themselves and others. The foundation of true transformation starts with understanding your attachment style and how to use this knowledge to unlock your full potential.Start Your Journey of Transformation: If you're ready to make lasting changes, improve your relationships, and cultivate the life you deserve, dive into the Self-Discovery Blueprint today. Take the first step towards more confidence, clarity, and connection. Use code: Blueprint25 at checkout! Thanks for listening!🔗 Join The Self-Discovery Blueprint: https://jbirdfit.mykajabi.com/the-self-discovery-blueprintSocial Media: Stay connected for daily inspiration, insights, and personal development strategies:🔗 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jbirdfit3/🔗 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jbirdfit/🔗 Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jbirdfit?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcContact Me: For coaching inquiries, media requests, or video testimonials:📧 info.jbirdfit@gmail.com Disclaimer: The content in this video is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a qualified healthcare provider before making any changes to your diet, exercise routine, or mental health care. Individual results may vary.https://988lifeline.org/get-help/Support the show
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Oct 25, 2025 • 50min

Ep. 128 Safe: Coming Home To Yourself and Others | Jessica Baum, LMHC

Send us a textIn this engaging conversation, Jason Smith and Jessica explore the themes of attachment, healing, and the importance of relationships in personal growth. They discuss the significance of book covers, the journey of interoception, and the role of anchors in emotional healing. Jessica shares insights from her new book, 'Safe', emphasizing the need for vulnerability and trust in healing processes. The discussion also touches on the Wheel of Attachment, the importance of self-care for therapists, and the transformative power of personal pain into purpose. Overall, the conversation provides a rich exploration of how understanding our attachment styles and experiences can lead to deeper connections and healing.TakeawaysThe cover of a book can convey deeper meanings.Trusting publishers can lead to successful book designs.Inner child healing is essential for personal growth.Attachment wounds influence adult relationships.Interoception helps in understanding bodily sensations.Finding an anchor is crucial for emotional healing.Healing occurs in relationships, not isolation.Vulnerability is a strength in healing processes.Self-care is vital for therapists and helpers.The Wheel of Attachment offers a nuanced view of relationships.Connect with Jessica: Order her new book "Safe": https://jessicabaumlmhc.com/interviewWelcome to The Pivot Path™ Coaching CommunityThis community is designed for individuals ready to break old patterns, build confidence, and create secure, empowered relationships with themselves and others. The foundation of true transformation starts with understanding your attachment style and how to use this knowledge to unlock your full potential.Start Your Journey of Transformation: If you're ready to make lasting changes, improve your relationships, and cultivate the life you deserve, dive into the Self-Discovery Blueprint today. Take the first step towards more confidence, clarity, and connection. Use code: Blueprint25 at checkout! Thanks for listening!🔗 Join The Self-Discovery Blueprint: https://jbirdfit.mykajabi.com/the-self-discovery-blueprintSocial Media: Stay connected for daily inspiration, insights, and personal development strategies:🔗 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jbirdfit3/🔗 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jbirdfit/🔗 Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jbirdfit?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcContact Me: For coaching inquiries, media requests, or video testimonials:📧 info.jbirdfit@gmail.com Disclaimer: The content in this video is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a qualified healthcare provider before making any changes to your diet, exercise routine, or mental health care. Individual results may vary.https://988lifeline.org/get-help/Support the show
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Oct 24, 2025 • 1h 15min

Ep. 127 The Cost of Inaction in Personal Growth | Dr. Brianna Diorio

Send us a textIn this conversation, Brianna Diorio and Jason Smith explore the themes of self-discovery, personal growth, and the complexities of relationships. They discuss the importance of self-reflection, the cost of inaction, and the power of perspective in overcoming challenges. The conversation emphasizes the need for authenticity, setting clear boundaries, and understanding one's values in relationships. They also touch on the impact of social media on self-perception and the significance of emotional intelligence in navigating personal connections. Ultimately, the discussion encourages listeners to take radical responsibility for their lives and choices, fostering a journey towards meaningful connections and personal fulfillment.TakeawaysKeep doing the reps of self-discovery.Self-reflection is crucial for personal growth.Inaction can be more costly than making the wrong decision.Your thoughts influence your feelings and actions.Authenticity is key in relationships.Social media can skew our perception of reality.Understand the importance of values in relationships.Set clear boundaries to protect your energy.Letting go is essential for growth.Emotional intelligence helps navigate relationships.Connect with Brianna: https://www.briannadiorio.com/ Welcome to The Pivot Path™ Coaching CommunityThis community is designed for individuals ready to break old patterns, build confidence, and create secure, empowered relationships with themselves and others. The foundation of true transformation starts with understanding your attachment style and how to use this knowledge to unlock your full potential.Start Your Journey of Transformation: If you're ready to make lasting changes, improve your relationships, and cultivate the life you deserve, dive into the Self-Discovery Blueprint today. Take the first step towards more confidence, clarity, and connection. Use code: Blueprint25 at checkout! Thanks for listening!🔗 Join The Self-Discovery Blueprint: https://jbirdfit.mykajabi.com/the-self-discovery-blueprintSocial Media: Stay connected for daily inspiration, insights, and personal development strategies:🔗 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jbirdfit3/🔗 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jbirdfit/🔗 Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jbirdfit?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcContact Me: For coaching inquiries, media requests, or video testimonials:📧 info.jbirdfit@gmail.com Disclaimer: The content in this video is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a qualified healthcare provider before making any changes to your diet, exercise routine, or mental health care. Individual results may vary.https://988lifeline.org/get-help/Support the show
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Sep 20, 2025 • 43min

Ep. 126 Walk the Talk America: Guns and Mental Health | Michael Sodini

Send us a textEp. Disclaimer: This episode contains discussion of suicide and firearms. Listener discretion advised.In this conversation, Michael Sodini discusses the intersection of firearms and mental health, emphasizing the importance of responsible gun ownership and the need for mental health awareness within the firearms community. He shares his journey from the firearms industry to founding Walk the Talk America, a nonprofit organization aimed at bridging the gap between guns and mental health. The discussion covers innovative solutions, cultural competence in mental health, and the Kids to Kings program, which mentors underserved youth in responsible gun ownership. Michael advocates for civil discourse and understanding between gun owners and non-gun owners, highlighting the need for a mental health plan for gun owners and their families.TakeawaysMichael Sodini is a third-generation firearms industry professional.The Second Amendment is crucial for self-defense and personal responsibility.Walk the Talk America aims to address mental health issues in the firearms community.Mental health screenings can be included in firearm packaging.Cultural competence training for mental health professionals is essential.The Kids to Kings program teaches responsible gun ownership to underserved youth.Safe storage programs can help gun owners in crisis.Legislation alone cannot solve issues related to firearms and mental health.Civil discourse is necessary for understanding different perspectives on gun ownership.Mental health plans are vital for gun owners and their families.Connect with Michael Sodini and Walk The Talk America: https://walkthetalkamerica.org/ Welcome to The Pivot Path™ Coaching CommunityThis community is designed for individuals ready to break old patterns, build confidence, and create secure, empowered relationships with themselves and others. The foundation of true transformation starts with understanding your attachment style and how to use this knowledge to unlock your full potential.Start Your Journey of Transformation: If you're ready to make lasting changes, improve your relationships, and cultivate the life you deserve, dive into the Self-Discovery Blueprint today. Take the first step towards more confidence, clarity, and connection. Use code: Blueprint25 at checkout! Thanks for listening!🔗 Join The Self-Discovery Blueprint: https://jbirdfit.mykajabi.com/the-self-discovery-blueprintSocial Media: Stay connected for daily inspiration, insights, and personal development strategies:🔗 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jbirdfit3/🔗 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jbirdfit/🔗 Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jbirdfit?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcContact Me: For coaching inquiries, media requests, or video testimonials:📧 info.jbirdfit@gmail.com Disclaimer: The content in this video is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a qualified healthcare provider before making any changes to your diet, exercise routine, or mental health care. Individual results may vary.https://988lifeline.org/get-help/Support the show
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Sep 20, 2025 • 42min

Ep. 125 Garrett Wood Clinical Hypnotherapist on Burnout

Send us a textIn this conversation, Jason Smith and Garrett Wood explore the complexities of burnout, particularly among high performers. They discuss how burnout is often misunderstood as a sign of failure, when in fact it can indicate a person's ability to push themselves beyond their limits. The dialogue delves into the impact of organizational values on personal well-being, the role of leadership in fostering a healthy work environment, and the emotional states that contribute to procrastination. They also touch on the importance of internal narratives, the challenges of masking behaviors, and the transformative power of hypnotherapy and somatic practices in healing. Ultimately, the conversation emphasizes the significance of self-discovery, gratitude, and sustainable change in overcoming burnout and achieving personal growth.TakeawaysBurnout is a sign of high performance, not failure.Organizational values can conflict with personal values, leading to burnout.Leaders can influence organizational culture and prevent burnout.Procrastination is often an emotional response to overwhelm.Internal narratives shape our self-perception and emotional health.Masking behaviors drain energy and contribute to burnout.Personal experiences with burnout can lead to significant life changes.Somatic work and breathwork can aid in emotional regulation.Hypnotherapy can help reframe past experiences and promote healing.Gratitude and joy can be cultivated through self-discovery.Connect with Garret Wood: https://www.gnosistherapy.com/Welcome to The Pivot Path™ Coaching CommunityThis community is designed for individuals ready to break old patterns, build confidence, and create secure, empowered relationships with themselves and others. The foundation of true transformation starts with understanding your attachment style and how to use this knowledge to unlock your full potential.Start Your Journey of Transformation: If you're ready to make lasting changes, improve your relationships, and cultivate the life you deserve, dive into the Self-Discovery Blueprint today. Take the first step towards more confidence, clarity, and connection. Use code: Blueprint25 at checkout! Thanks for listening!🔗 Join The Self-Discovery Blueprint: https://jbirdfit.mykajabi.com/the-self-discovery-blueprintSocial Media: Stay connected for daily inspiration, insights, and personal development strategies:🔗 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jbirdfit3/🔗 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jbirdfit/🔗 Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jbirdfit?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcContact Me: For coaching inquiries, media requests, or video testimonials:📧 info.jbirdfit@gmail.com Disclaimer: The content in this video is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a qualified healthcare provider before making any changes to your diet, exercise routine, or mental health care. Individual results may vary.https://988lifeline.org/get-help/ Support the show

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