Raising Private Money with Jay Conner

***Guest AppearanceCredits to:https://www.youtube.com/@EG_Developer "The Art of Raising Capital"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oo0HNrZOvtI If you’re a real estate investor or developer wrestling with the age-old question—how do I find funding for my deals?—You’re not alone. Most of us start in the same place: we turn to banks, endure rigorous credit checks, and cross our fingers that the funds come through. But as veteran investor Jay Conner shared in his interview with Eugene Gershman, there’s a better way: Raising Private Money.In this episode, we’ll break down Jay’s method for leveraging private lenders—a system that not only allows you to fund deals quickly but puts you firmly in the driver’s seat.The Bank Shutdown That Sparked a ChangeJay’s journey into private money began out of necessity. For years, he’d relied on banks, but in 2009, his line of credit was abruptly closed. With deals under contract and no financing in sight, he asked himself, “Who do I know that can help?” That call led him to the world of private money, where individuals, often using their retirement funds, can invest in real estate for higher, safer returns.Don’t Beg for Money: Teach InsteadOne of Jay’s core philosophies? Don’t chase money—attract it by teaching. Instead of pitching individual deals with desperation, Jay developed a private money “program.” He educated potential lenders on what private money is, how it works, and why it’s mutually beneficial—all before bringing any specific investment opportunity to the table.By wearing his “teacher hat,” he positioned himself as a knowledgeable, trustworthy guide rather than someone begging for help. This simple shift allowed him to raise over $2 million in 90 days.The Secret: Separate the Funding Conversation from the DealJay Conner emphasizes that the worst time to raise money is when you need it urgently for a deal; desperation has a scent that savvy investors can detect. Instead, he recommends cultivating interest in your program beforehand. Explain your investment approach, outline your terms (like 8-10% interest, first or second lien position, borrowing up to 75% of after-repair value), and show potential lenders how their money is protected.When a deal arises, you call with “great news”—not a desperate plea. The money is already pledged, and investors are ready and waiting.Indirect Outreach: Ask for Referrals, Not FundsA genius part of Jay’s approach is the indirect ask. Rather than pitching investments directly, he’d connect with well-networked locals (like the town’s original Zenith TV dealer!), share that he’s helping people earn high rates of return, and ask for referrals. More often than not, people would express interest themselves or spread the word to their circles.This reflective, relationship-driven technique allowed Jay to build a network of 47 private lenders, most of whom had never even heard of private money lending before he educated them.Scaling Up: From Small Deals to MillionsIs this approach scalable? Absolutely. Whether you need $500,000 or $10 million, Jay’s model works by adapting your outreach. For example, he’s raised nearly a million dollars in a single luncheon by teaching his program to a room of community influencers. He regularly uses presentations, podcasts, and word-of-mouth to reach potential lenders, rather than relying solely on one-on-one conversations.The Role of Self-Directed IRAsA powerful hack in the private money world is using self-directed IRAs. Many investors have retirement funds languishing with low returns. By educating them on how to use these funds for private lending, J

If you’ve ever wondered how successful real estate investors consistently land incredible deals, you’re not alone. On a recent episode of the “Raising Private Money” podcast with host Jay Conner, Dave Payerchin shared powerful, actionable insights from his career, where he’s raised over $50 million in private money and built an impressive rental portfolio. Dave's advice is gold, whether you’re looking for your first deal or leveling up your investment business.Mindset: Your Most Important AssetDave starts by emphasizing the value of mindset and personal development. Before getting into tactics, he grounds his success in what he calls the “core four”—his relationship with God, his health, his family, and finally, his business. For aspiring investors, this serves as a reminder: true success is holistic and must be built on a solid personal foundation.Crucially, Dave shares a personal lesson about overcoming limiting beliefs—especially the common thought, “I’m not enough.” Through consistent, small commitments (like daily habits), you build self-trust and confidence. In the context of real estate, your mindset directly affects your ability to network, take risks, and follow through on deals.Why Dave Loves Single-Family RentalsDave is a strong believer in affordable housing—specifically single-family rentals, especially in stable, cash-flowing markets like Columbus, Ohio. He points out several reasons why:Demand: Single-family homes are in high demand since people prefer houses over apartments, especially families who want a yard and privacy.Accessibility: It’s easier to raise money and get financing for single-family deals. You don’t need complex investment structures or syndications.Stability: Markets like the Midwest aren’t seeing the same volatility as coastal areas, making them ideal for long-term cash flow.The Power of Private MoneyBoth Dave and Jay agree: private money is one of the most powerful tools in real estate. It allows you to scale your investing without using your capital and enables you to compete as a “serious buyer.” Dave’s own story starts with necessity—having no money or credit, he realized he needed to raise 100% of the capital (purchase and rehab) to get started.Often, new investors make the mistake of “shopping for cheaper money” before they’ve built a track record, thinking they should negotiate for the best rates right away. Dave’s advice? Get in the game, even if you pay higher rates at first. Over time, as you close deals and build credibility, you’ll attract lenders offering better terms.Finding Deals: The Action StepsSo, how do you break into the business and start finding great deals?Put Yourself Out There: Start by telling everyone what you’re doing. Dave suggests overcoming the natural fear of being judged or not taken seriously. The market rewards those who educate and share.Network the Right Way: Use social media strategically—on Facebook, show your family and authentic self. Mix in regular updates about your deals, but keep it natural and genuine. The goal is to build relationships, not just blast advertisements.The Personal Touch: Dave is a master at relationship building. He regularly sends hundreds of personalized holiday texts to his network. Not every message is about business. It’s about staying top-of-mind and nurturing relationships without strings attached.Transparency with Lenders: When it comes time to fund deals, Dave keeps it simple for his private money partners, showing basic numbers and security (like a mortgage or promissory note). He distinguishes his deals by avoiding syndications, instead offering lenders first-lien security on a single property for maximum safety.Final ThoughtsDave Payerchin’s approach is refreshingly honest and actionable. He reminds us that the secret sau

In real estate investing, raising private money is often seen as a numbers game, but at its core, it’s really about relationships. This is precisely the message Jay Conner and his guest, Kevin Thompson, share in their enlightening conversation on the "Raising Private Money" podcast. Kevin, an entrepreneur with a proven track record of facilitating hundreds of strategic partnerships, brings knowledge about the true power of relationship capital.The Power of Relationship CapitalBusiness success, especially in fields reliant on collaboration and investment, doesn’t exist in a vacuum. Kevin Thompson’s journey highlights how critical relationships are—not just transactional contacts, but meaningful, mutually beneficial connections. Over the years, Kevin has helped fellow entrepreneurs generate millions in revenue, not by relentless self-promotion, but through thoughtful introduction, collaboration, and service.A central idea in Kevin’s approach is treating relationships with genuine care. Relationships aren’t merely a means to an end; they are the end in themselves. The entrepreneurs who grow their businesses consistently are those who invest time and authentic energy in nurturing their network. Whether it’s private lenders in real estate or partners in other industries, the principle remains the same: showing up with a servant’s heart creates a ripple effect that supports long-term growth.Defining and Creating Strategic PartnershipsMany business owners misunderstand the essence of strategic partnerships. It’s not simply finding someone to promote your offerings for a cut of the revenue. Kevin emphasizes that a successful partnership is two people coming together to achieve more collectively than they ever could individually. The most fruitful collaborations begin not with, ‘What can you do for me?’ but with, ‘How can I help you serve your clients better?’This shift in mindset is transformative. It allows both parties to explore their unique skills and resources and see how they can uplift each other. The real value isn’t just sales or dollars but the experience and trust that’s built along the way. Kevin’s network is a testament to this philosophy—he’s facilitated over 400 strategic partnerships by focusing not on what he can gain, but on how he can help others grow.Being the ConnectorKevin has become known as "The Connector," not simply for the sheer volume of relationships he’s built, but for the quality and impact of those connections. His approach is proactive and intentional. Rather than wait for opportunities to come to him, Kevin reaches out to those who inspire him, often from something as small as a thoughtful social media post. He compliments, appreciates, and asks probing questions—curious to learn what excites the other person and how he might contribute to their success.Even when facilitating introductions between others, Kevin’s focus is on alignment of values, interests, and intention. True partnerships are only possible when there’s a natural fit, and Kevin’s intuition allows him to discern these opportunities effectively.Leading with Service—The Secret to ReciprocityOne of the most powerful lessons from Kevin’s story is the approach of giving without expectation. Giving appreciation, attention, and help without any strings attached creates an environment where reciprocity happens naturally. Sometimes the benefits return directly from the person you help, other times from an unexpected source. This is the essence of the "law of reciprocity"—what goes around, comes around, often amplified.Implementing Relationship-Building in Your BusinessFor those wanting to implement these principles, the process begins with genuine curiosity. Start new conversations by asking sincerely what the other person is passionate about or currently working on. Listen with intent, not with an agenda. Look for way

If you're exploring strategies to build wealth, especially through real estate, the recent conversation between Jay Conner and Kenneth Gee on the “Raising Private Money” podcast is a must-watch. Kenneth Gee, a seasoned real estate investor, CPA, and commercial lender, has over 26 years of experience, has raised more than $50 million in private money, and has been involved in transactions totaling over $2 billion. In this episode, Ken shares his journey, insights on raising and leveraging private money, and actionable strategies for both active and passive investors.From a 3 AM Epiphany to Real Estate SuccessKen’s story begins with a deeply personal motivator: time with family. While working grueling hours as a CPA at Deloitte, he found his only quality time with his newborn daughter was at 3 AM feedings. This realization sparked his pursuit of better financial freedom and work-life balance. Surrounded by successful real estate clients during his lending and accounting career, he decided to dive headfirst into the multifamily property space.His start wasn’t glamorous—three small apartment buildings financed using a mix of seller financing, a home equity line, and support from his in-laws. What’s notable is Ken’s emphasis on starting where you are, using creativity, and not waiting for perfect conditions. He warns against being paralyzed by inexperience; instead, leverage what you have and learn as you go.Why Multifamily?While many consider starting in single-family homes, Ken chose multifamily from the get-go. His logic was straightforward: scalability and risk management. With multifamily, one vacancy doesn’t devastate your income stream the way it might with a single-family unit. Plus, greater cash flow allows you to hire help, freeing up your own time—a crucial consideration for those juggling busy careers or family life.Raising Private Money—Built on Trust and TransparencyOne of the most powerful sections of the podcast focuses on Ken’s approach to raising private money. Early deals were funded via personal connections, but over time, his network and credibility expanded. Now, Ken runs regular webinars—open and education-focused—for potential investors.This outreach isn’t about high-pressure sales. Instead, he invites people to observe, learn, and engage at their own pace. Many followers tune in for months—even years—before choosing to invest. Ken’s approach is a model in building trust: provide value, answer questions, and empower investors to make informed decisions.Education and Mentorship: The Real Difference-MakersBoth Ken and Jay stress a critical but often overlooked step: get educated before diving in. Ken’s advanced multifamily acquisition program is a year-long commitment with weekly group coaching calls, resources, and hands-on support. The curriculum guides students from developing their personal financial statement and business plan, all the way through underwriting deals and asset management.Why so much focus on the details? Because, as Ken says, lenders and private investors will “sniff out” gaps in your knowledge. Being detail-oriented signals trustworthiness. It’s also the key to building your confidence and making sound decisions—cornerstones for long-term success.Common Mistakes—and How to Avoid ThemKen has seen many new investors stumble by underestimating the importance of due diligence and accurate underwriting. Treat real estate as a business, not a side hustle. Those who ignore the details, rush deals, or skip coaching often pay dearly, both in lost money and missed opportunities.Jay adds an important point: don’t go it alone, especially early on. A coach or mentor can help you avoid unseen pitfalls and accelerate your learning curve. The resources and podcasts available today can save you the hard lessons Ken had to learn the slow way decades ago.Final Tho

In the ever-changing world of real estate investing, asset classes rise and fall with shifting markets. Yet, according to real estate veteran Kevin Bupp, one asset continuously proves its value, resilience, and scalability: mobile home parks. On a recent episode of the Raising Private Money podcast with Jay Conner, The Private Money Authority, Kevin Bupp shared his extensive experience, including raising over $250 million in private capital, and revealed what makes mobile home parks a standout investment opportunity.The Unexpected Journey to Mobile Home ParksKevin Bupp’s real estate journey began at age 19. Like many, he poured his energy into single-family rentals, building an impressive portfolio of 22 properties by his mid-20s. He tasted success but also felt the sting of the 2008 market crash, when he lost nearly everything.Reflecting on that pivotal period, Kevin noted how inefficiencies in managing scattered single-family rentals, compounded by the inefficiency of technology at the time, exposed his business to excessive risk. The crash forced him to reevaluate, rebuild smarter, and ultimately, seek out asset classes offering not just cash flow and efficiency, but also resilience. This search led Kevin to mobile home parks.Why Mobile Home Parks Offer Superior Investment Benefits Recession ResistanceOne of the central appeals of mobile home parks is their stability during economic downturns. Historically, demand for affordable housing rises when the economy struggles. Mobile home parks cater directly to this need, providing low-cost living options that are in constant demand, regardless of market cycles.As Kevin explained, even during periods when single-family home rents fell, mobile home parks remained relatively stable. Residents of these communities rarely leave; replacing or moving a mobile home is expensive, creating natural “stickiness” and consistent occupancy for park owners. Operational Efficiency & ScalabilityUnlike single-family rentals spread across a wide geographic area, each with its operational quirks, a well-managed mobile home park can comprise dozens or even hundreds of income-producing units on one property. Kevin cited his company’s experience, scaling from a 34-lot park to properties holding over 700 sites, allowing rapid expansion without proportional increases in overhead.Operationally, many residents in mobile home parks own their homes and simply rent the lots, reducing maintenance costs and management headaches for the investor. This model allows investors to focus on the land and common infrastructure, not individual unit repairs. Barriers to Entry and Limited CompetitionMunicipalities often resist the development of new mobile home parks due to lingering social stigma and zoning challenges. This makes existing parks more valuable over time, insulating owners from the risk of market oversupply. As Kevin put it, many parks were built decades ago and are still held by the original owners. Buying these properties often means acquiring from “mom and pop” operators, frequently below market value. Attractive Financing and Creative Purchasing OptionsKevin detailed how long-term relationships with owners and a reputation for fair, reliable purchases lead to creative financing opportunities, including owner financing with favorable terms, further improving margins and investor returns.The Role of Private Money and Building Investor RelationshipsA core theme of Kevin’s discussion was raising and leveraging private capital to fuel growth. He emphasized the importance of sharing real results transparently, whether in networking groups, social media, or his podcast, as a magnet for investor interest. Kevin’s approach is simple: prove success, speak openly about your business, an

In a world where career changes are increasingly common, the story of Dan Cantillana stands out as an inspiring example of how one can transition from a seemingly unrelated profession into a remarkable success in real estate. From the busy corridors of a fourth-grade classroom to the dynamic world of real estate investment, Dan's journey is one fueled by passion, purpose, and the drive to uplift others through his ventures.Dan's career began as a fourth-grade teacher, a role that instilled in him a love for educating and helping others. However, his path took an exciting turn when he connected with real estate mogul Jay Conner's podcast and book on raising private money—a pivotal moment that encouraged him to dive into the real estate market. What started as a curiosity soon transformed into a calling. Inspired by what he learned, Dan immersed himself in the world of real estate, flipping properties and improving communities while simultaneously offering investors double-digit returns.One of the most striking aspects of Dan’s story is his approach to raising private money. He began by simply sharing what he was learning and doing with his network. By leveraging his ability to communicate effectively—a skill honed in his teaching years—Dan garnered attention and interest from potential investors. Embracing the power of storytelling, Dan utilized short videos and email marketing to capture the essence of each property deal, making his investors feel a part of the journey. His mantra, "Do you like making money in your sleep? Call me," encapsulates the appealing simplicity and honesty of his approach.Dan’s business thrives on relationships and transparency. His commitment to his investors, whom he considers partners, is evident in his dedication to making the real estate investment experience both profitable and enjoyable. It’s not just about the financial returns; it’s about being part of a story that transforms communities and uplifts neighborhoods. Dan’s emphasis on customer experience and communication has grown his referral-based business, building a robust network of satisfied investors.The foundation of Dan's success lies not only in his teaching skills and ability to communicate but also in his unwavering dedication to his values. His master's degree in Christian leadership underscores a life guided by principles that he applies both personally and professionally. Dan’s real estate ventures are not just about making money; they are about making a difference, reinforcing community strength, and helping others build wealth.Technology and networking play a significant role in Dan's business model. From attending meetups to leveraging social media and tapping into the power of search engine optimization, his approach is multifaceted, much like a perfectly prepared dish of chicken gumbo. Every element adds flavor, culminating in a successful strategy for finding off-market properties and raising private money.Dan Cantillana's journey from a fourth-grade teacher to a real estate entrepreneur showcases the potential that lies within career transitions. His story is a testament to the power of lifelong learning and the impact of mentorship—a theme he consistently returns to, continually crediting his success to the support and guidance of those around him. By courageously stepping into real estate and sharing his journey, Dan has not only transformed his own life but has also created opportunities for others to grow and prosper. His story serves as an inspiration to anyone seeking to pivot their career toward new horizons.In conclusion, whether you're a seasoned investor or a curious beginner, the lessons from Dan's journey are clear: embrace learning, leverage your existing skills, communicate your vision, and above all, remain committed to helping others. With these principles, success is not just a goal; it's a journey worth pursuing.If you're inspired by Dan's journey

In today's fast-paced world, many of us find ourselves trapped in the endless cycle of the 9 to 5 grind, yearning for a taste of financial freedom and a lifestyle that truly resonates with our personal values. Michael Hoang, a real estate investor from Houston, Texas, once found himself in this very predicament. However, through strategic real estate investments, he managed to escape the daily grind and now dedicates his life to helping others achieve the same.Before diving into real estate, Michael was entrenched in the telecom industry, working as a risk manager with a grueling travel schedule that spanned the U.S., Canada, and even Puerto Rico. As he juggled this demanding routine, he recognized the unsustainable nature of his professional life. Motivated by the desire for stability and a gentle nudge from his wife, he embarked on a quest for financial independence through real estate.Michael's journey in real estate began with "house hacking," a strategy where one purchases a multi-unit property, lives in one unit, and rents out the others. This initial step provided a crucial foundation for his real estate business, allowing him to build capital and experience. However, he soon learned that fear and hesitation had initially held him back from progressing further, despite possessing the necessary knowledge and tools.His breakthrough came when he discovered the power of private money. Traditional financing methods, such as hard money lending, often come with cumbersome paperwork and higher costs. In contrast, private money offered a more flexible and relationship-driven approach, making it easier to secure funding quickly and efficiently. This strategy enabled him to scale his operations significantly faster.Michael credits much of his success to direct-to-seller marketing, emphasizing the importance of finding deals off-market through methods like direct mail. Despite numerous technological advancements, he attests to the timeless efficiency of direct mail in reaching potential sellers and securing profitable deals.Furthermore, Michael utilizes the BRRRR method (Buy, Rehab, Rent, Refinance, Repeat), acquiring distressed properties, renovating them, and refinancing to recoup his initial investment. This method has allowed him to recycle his capital repeatedly, growing his portfolio and wealth without the limitations imposed by traditional financing institutions.Through networking and relationship-building at local meetups and self-directed IRA gatherings, Michael connected with private money lenders who shared his vision. He emphasizes the significance of nurturing these relationships early, suggesting that aspiring investors "dig their well before they are thirsty" to avoid desperation when a lucrative deal arises.Michael's story is not just about financial gain; it's about creating a fulfilling life based on personal values and priorities. He finds joy in knowing that his investments not only provide him with financial freedom but also benefit his private lenders, creating a cycle of opportunity and growth.His journey underscores a critical lesson: in real estate, as in life, relationships are everything. Whether it's connecting with potential sellers or building trust with private lenders, Michael's approach revolves around integrity and mutual benefit, resulting in a win-win scenario for all parties involved.As he continues to expand his real estate ventures and digital presence, Michael remains committed to sharing his knowledge and insights. Through his podcast, "The Be Someone Podcast," and his active participation on social media, he inspires others to break free from their constraints and pursue lives of passion and purpose.In a world where many feel trapped by the constraints of traditional career paths, Michael Hoang’s success story offers hope and inspiration. By leveraging creative real estate strategies and cultivating meaningful relation

***Guest AppearanceCredits to:https://www.youtube.com/@BlueCollarWealthClub  "Becoming a Private Lender with Jay Connerl"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x-k2ACFciBk  In the world of real estate investing, securing funds efficiently and reliably can be the linchpin to scaling your business. Jay Conner, a seasoned real estate investor and the so-called "Private Money Authority," recently shared his invaluable insights on the Blue Collar Wealth Club podcast with host Jerry Garcia. His journey from banker-dependent investor to private money mogul presents a fascinating story of innovation, resilience, and education.The Turning Point: A Crisis into OpportunityJay's foray into private money was not born out of curiosity but necessity. After six years of relying on traditional bank loans, he faced an unexpected closure of his line of credit in 2009, despite a strong credit history. This abrupt financial crisis pushed him to seek alternative funding methods, leading him to discover private money.In a conversation with a fellow investor, Jay learned about the world of private lending and self-directed IRAs, where individuals can use their retirement funds to invest in real estate for higher returns. This discovery was pivotal. He realized that the key to raising private money lay in educating potential lenders rather than asking for loans.Educate First: The Private Money ProgramJay emphasizes the importance of separating the conversation about potential investments from actual funding requests. His approach is based on teaching individuals about the opportunity to become private lenders. He crafted a comprehensive program that includes competitive interest rates, attractive terms, and robust security measures.By conveying this knowledge through private lender luncheons and one-on-one meetings, Jay effectively secures significant funds without making direct asks. He underscores that desperation has a smell, and by providing information upfront, potential lenders are drawn in by curiosity and interest rather than pressure. This strategy has allowed him to cultivate a network of 47 private lenders, amassing $8.5 million in funds.Building Trust and Offering SecurityFor Jay and his private lenders, trust is paramount. He demonstrates his commitment by securing all loans with real estate, providing a 25% equity cushion to safeguard against market fluctuations. Additionally, lenders are named as mortgagees on insurance policies, ensuring their interests are protected.By acting as the underwriter, Jay guarantees that his deals align with the pre-established terms, eliminating any surprises for lenders. His success in consistently securing private money is rooted in transparency, reliability, and the proactive teaching of financial opportunities.Empowering Business Owners with Private LendingJay extends his insights beyond real estate, suggesting how business owners can leverage private lending. For those seeking to become lenders, he advises knowing the borrower’s experience and securing loans wherever possible. For business owners in need of funds, Jay suggests having a well-planned program to present to potential lenders.He highlights the advantage of having funds lined up before they are needed, preventing the desperation-driven pitfalls seen in alternative financing options like merchant cash advances. This approach offers business owners a flexible, lower-cost borrowing option, helping them manage cash flow and growth seamlessly.Beyond Real Estate: A Broader VisionJay’s teachings on private money are not confined to real estate. They offer a blueprint for financial empowerment, allow

***Guest AppearanceCredits to:https://www.youtube.com/@BolaAlabi "How to Build a 7-Figure Real Estate Business with Less Than 10 Hours a Week"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KlHGPU8cB0Q  The real estate world is a sphere of endless opportunities, yet financing often stands as the primary barrier for both new and seasoned investors. While traditional bank loans have long been the go-to option, they come with their fair share of hurdles and red tape. Enter private money—a game-changing concept that's revolutionizing how deals are funded and executed. In a recent enlightening episode on the Raisig Private Money podcast, Jay Conner joins Bola Alabi on The Career Evangelist Podcast and shares his invaluable insights on harnessing the potential of private money to transform the way you invest in real estate.Why Consider Private Money?Jay Conner's journey into private money began from a place of necessity when his bank unexpectedly cut off his line of credit. Finding himself in a predicament with two deals under contract and no funding, Conner asked a crucial question: "Who do you know that can help you with your problem?" This led him to discover private money through a fellow investor, Jeff Blankenship. Unlike traditional loans that often require personal guarantees and creaking through endless bank procedures, private money is sourced from individuals looking to invest their capital or retirement funds in real estate for attractive returns.The beauty of private money lies in its flexibility and accessibility. Whether you aim to purchase single-family homes, commercial buildings, or apartments, the structure remains consistent. The process is less about convincing hard money lenders and more about creating mutually beneficial relationships with people eager to see their money grow.The Role of Education and Relationship BuildingJay emphasizes the importance of educating potential lenders and establishing trust as fundamental to raising private money. His approach involves putting on his "teacher hat" rather than pitching deals out of desperation. By clearly explaining the investment opportunity, the security of their funds, and the expected returns, Jay reframes private lending from a transactional agreement to an educational and collaborative partnership. This helps in fostering long-term relationships where lenders are comfortable and eager to participate in future projects.To illustrate, Jay has developed a network of 47 private lenders, none of whom knew about private money until he explained it. His ability to attract constant investment is rooted in being transparent and providing sound knowledge about private lending, ensuring that both sides of the table feel informed and secure.Strategies for SuccessOne of the standout strategies Jay shared on the podcast is the benefit of having funds ready before contracting a deal. This involves separating the conversations about lending opportunities and specific deals, thus allowing investors to feel prepared and confident when entering negotiations. Unlike the conventional wisdom that suggests getting a deal and hoping for the funds to materialize, Jay insists on the contrary—having a financial plan beforehand empowers investors to act swiftly and assuredly.Moreover, he suggests structuring deals with flexibility in mind, such as offering interest-only payments, allowing lenders to earn consistently without reducing your cash flow during the holding period. This pragmatic approach to investor relations underscores Jay's philosophy of leading with a servant’s heart and adds an appealing layer of security for lenders.ConclusionJay Conner's journey and expert

***Guest AppearanceCredits to:https://www.youtube.com/@TheMHPExchange "How To Find The Money To Finance Your Next Deal"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FC635vBeyTA  Navigating the world of real estate can often feel like traversing a maze, especially when it comes to securing funding for your deals. For those feeling daunted by the hurdles of traditional banking, Jay Conner, renowned as the "Private Money Authority," shares invaluable insights into how investors can break free from the constraints of conventional lending methods.Jay's journey into private money lending began out of necessity back in 2009, during the global financial crisis. Like many real estate investors at that time, Jay found himself in a bind when his reliable line of credit from the bank was abruptly closed. However, rather than seeing this as a setback, Jay turned it into an opportunity to explore alternative funding sources. This exploration introduced him to the world of private money—a realm that would transform his real estate career.Private money lending involves working with individuals who are willing to lend their personal investment capital in exchange for attractive returns. Unlike traditional banks, which often impose stringent credit checks and collateral requirements, private lenders offer flexibility, allowing you to make your own rules. Jay emphasizes that the cornerstone of his success in this arena has been education and relationship-building. By wearing his "teacher hat," he educates potential private lenders about the secure, high-return opportunities available through real estate investments.One of the key insights Jay shared on the podcast is the importance of investing in your local community—an approach he prefers, as it allows him to maintain better oversight of his investments. However, he notes that private money principles are versatile and can be applied across various real estate asset classes, from single-family homes to mobile home parks.Jay’s strategy pivots around the concept of a "good news phone call," a unique approach he uses to fund deals without ever explicitly asking for money. After educating individuals on private money, Jay simply calls them with news of a potential investment that matches their pre-discussed funding capability. This approach is not just about maintaining control over investments but also about offering genuine value to lenders by securing their investments with real estate, therefore ensuring that both parties benefit.The podcast also highlighted an often-overlooked avenue—self-directed IRAs. For those with retirement accounts, directing funds into real estate can yield higher returns compared to traditional investment vehicles. Jay reiterated the importance of establishing a relationship with a self-directed IRA company, thus providing an additional pathway for potential investors to engage in real estate funding.Jay’s emphasis on mindset—"owning the real estate between your ears"—is pivotal. Many potential investors are held back by fear and a scarcity mindset, unaware of the abundant capital available for real estate deals. Jay’s narrative breaks these barriers, demonstrating that with confidence, knowledge, and the right network, securing private money can be a seamless process.Entrepreneurs and real estate newcomers alike stand to gain from Jay’s wealth of knowledge, particularly those eager to explore non-traditional funding routes. His book, "Where to Get the Money Now," which he generously offers for free (just cover shipping), is an excellent starting point for anyone looking to delve deeper into private money lending.This episode is more than just a guide to securing funding—it's an empowering call to action for investors