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Aug 19, 2024 • 28min

How Women Can Help Men Heal (with Britta Eskey)

Many men have been wounded by women. In this episode, Britta Eskey explains how women can help men heal wounds caused by women. Without women, we are missing half of humanity.Britta Eskey co-founded COR, which assists people in finding and living their purpose, including through the Noble Man workshop. Britta is the author of Initiations in Love, a spiritual memoir which answers the age old question: “What do we do with our pain?” Britta has a background in social work, family therapy, counseling, family constellation work, dance and movement, spiritual direction, and life coaching. Britta is a NeuroAffective Relational Model (NARM) trauma-informed professional and a certified Compassion Cultivation Teacher. She lives in Asheville, North Carolina, with her husband, Lee Eskey, and their dog, Heidi.Explore Britta's work at corexperience.comBuy Britta's book: Initiations in Love: A Memoir (paid link)Learn more about The Noble Man Workshop at corexperience.com/nobleman~~~You're invited to The Porn Free Man Online Conference!When: Friday, January 10 and Saturday, January 11, 2025Get your free ticket now at thepornfreeman.com~~~Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!
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Aug 12, 2024 • 17min

Three Unhealed Boys Within Every Man

Explore the intriguing concept of having three unhealed boys within every man. Meet the 'good boy' who becomes the 'hero,' the 'bad boy' morphing into the 'villain,' and the 'hurt boy' assuming the role of the 'victim.' Each character stems from childhood experiences, highlighting the importance of nurturing these inner children for personal growth. Gain insights into how recognizing and healing these aspects can lead to a deeper understanding of identity and masculinity.
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Jul 29, 2024 • 31min

A New Approach To Internet Filtering (with Plucky)

Have you ever tried to remove access to porn on your digital devices? What if you could create a filter with no loopholes? In this episode, you'll learn a new and innovative approach to internet filtering with Jon and Kristin Wilkes, founders of pluckyfilter.com. You'll also hear from Scott Wurtz, a passionate Plucky user. If you're interested in protecting yourself from porn without giving up your phone, this episode is for you. Learn more at pluckyfilter.com.Jon and Kristin Wilkes, founders of Plucky, have been married for 12 years and have 3 young children. Jon created Plucky because he needed a strong internet filter and happened to have the software skills to make it. Kristin is the Director of Communications and Jon's cheerleader. They've been on this adventure of using their skills for God's kingdom full-time for the past 9 years.Scott Wurtz grew up in Wheaton, IL, and attended Wheaton College (BS, MA). Professionally, he has taught physics and computer science at the high school level and currently works as a software developer. Scott discovered Plucky during the Covid-19 pandemic in 2020. He has used it ever since.Learn more at pluckyfilter.com.Your free guide to technology that keeps you safe from porn:https://www.purelifealliance.com/porn-fighting-technology.html~~~You're invited to The Porn Free Man Online Conference!When: Friday, January 10 and Saturday, January 11, 2025Get your free ticket now at thepornfreeman.com~~~Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!
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Jul 22, 2024 • 54min

Outgrowing Porn in Marriage (with Rich and Deanna Millentree)

Rich and Deanna Millentree share their journey of overcoming porn addiction in marriage, emphasizing the importance of faith and communication. They discuss navigating differences, supporting each other through challenges, and finding strength in God's love. The podcast explores the impact of porn addiction on relationships and the role of support, empathy, and understanding in fostering deeper connections.
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Jul 18, 2024 • 52min

How To Transform Your Triggers: The F.L.O.S.S. Method (Part 2)

In this episode, I transform one of my triggers using The F.L.O.S.S. Method with help from three Certified Husband Material Coaches: Andrew Loyd, Juan Mejia, and Rocky Pisor. This episode was recorded live at the recent HMA In A Day workshop as a live demonstration of Trigger Tuesday, one of the weekly coaching calls in Husband Material Academy.The F.L.O.S.S. Method:F = FearL = LieO = Origin StoryS = SadnessS = SurrenderDrew Boa is a Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional and Coach in Colorado Springs, Colorado. Connect with Drew at drewboa.comAndrew Loyd is an Ordained Pastor and Coach in Cottage Grove, Oregon. Connect with Andrew at restoredstorycoaching.comJuan Mejia is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Coach in Atlanta, Georgia. Email Juan at juanmejiacounseling@gmail.com.Rocky Pisor is a Pastoral Counselor and Coach in Fresno, California. Connect with Rocky at reconnecthope.comFree resource mentioned in this episode:What If I Don't Remember Much Of My Childhood? by Adam Young~~~You're invited to The Porn Free Man Online Conference!When: Friday, January 10 and Saturday, January 11, 2025Get your free ticket now at thepornfreeman.com~~~Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!
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Jul 15, 2024 • 42min

How To Transform Your Triggers: The F.L.O.S.S. Method (Part 1)

Learn about the F.L.O.S.S. method to address triggers, explore childhood experiences, lies individuals believe, origin story, grieving for healing, and tools for transformation. Emphasizes personal growth by understanding root causes, confronting temptations, and overcoming pornography addiction through emotional and physical truth.
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Jul 8, 2024 • 28min

How I Stopped Getting Into My Husband's Recovery Work Instead Of Doing Mine (with Tera Brown)

Tera Brown went from trying to fix her husband's sex addiction to finding herself, her emotions, her boundaries, and her sacred ground. In this episode, you'll learn what it looks like to heal from relational trauma and feel alive in your body. Tera Brown is a trauma-informed life coach trained by APSATS (Association of Partners of Sex Addiction Treatment Specialists). She woke up from a lifelong pattern of avoiding her emotions when her husband disclosed his sex addiction after 16 years of marriage. Tera and her husband have now been married for 29 years.Tera specializes in helping women and couples create personal safety, emotional sobriety, and peace. Learn more about her coaching practice, support groups, and online classes at coachtera.com.Interested in Tera's experiential retreat?Check out La Loba: The Woman Who KnowsNext retreat: October 18-20, 2024 in Smithfield, UtahMentioned in this episode:The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz (paid link)~~~You're invited to The Porn Free Man Online Conference!When: Friday, January 10 and Saturday, January 11, 2025Get your free ticket now at thepornfreeman.com~~~Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!
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Jul 1, 2024 • 32min

Sitting In The Dirt Of Sexual Brokenness (with Jeremy Williamson)

How do I sit in the dirt with someone who is experiencing sexual brokenness? What if I don't know what to say? What if I find myself dysregulated or sexually aroused by the other person? Jeremy Williamson offers invaluable wisdom and counterintuitive clarity about how "be with" others in such a way that they experience the presence of God.Jeremy Williamson is a storywork coach and counselor with ReStory. He is also the Director of Restorative Experiences at Restoration Project. As a former pastor and missionary with 20+ years of experience, Jeremy serves as a kind and passionate guide for men and women who long to know God and live in wholeness. Email Jeremy at jeremy@restory.life.If you loved this interview...Take the Sitting In The Dirt Course by Chris Bruno and Jeremy Williamson (highly recommended!)Join Sitting In The Dirt Cohort (for 5 weeks with Jeremy)Use the discount code HUSBANDMATERIAL for $10 off!~~~You're invited to The Porn Free Man Online Conference!When: Friday, January 10 and Saturday, January 11, 2025Get your free ticket now at thepornfreeman.com~~~Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!
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Jun 24, 2024 • 25min

How To Do Experiential Healing Work

Discover the power of experiential healing work for outgrowing porn, including inner child work and brain spotting. Explore personal connections and overcoming childhood fears through this innovative approach. Join the waitlist for HMA and apply for coaching or healing weekends for a transformative journey.
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Jun 17, 2024 • 41min

Restoration After Porn Relapse (with Rocky Pisor)

How do you pursue restoration after a relapse, especially in marriage or ministry leadership? Rocky Pisor tells his own story of processing a porn relapse after 17 years of sobriety. You'll learn how to notice the warning signs of impending relapse, and how to respond to relapse with curiosity and compassion rather than punishing yourself or pretending like everything is fine. There is wisdom in this episode!Rocky Pisor is a Certified Husband Material Coach, Sex Addiction Mentor, Trauma-Informed Facilitator, and Pastoral Counselor who has worked through his own story of freedom from sex addiction. Learn more at regener8mentoring.comRead Rocky's free resource: How to Process a Lapse/RelapseSchedule a free, no-obligation personal chat with Rocky: https://calendly.com/rocky-pisor/quick-chatEmail Rocky at rockyp@regnener8mentoring.com~~~You're invited to The Porn Free Man Online Conference!When: Friday, January 10 and Saturday, January 11, 2025Get your free ticket now at thepornfreeman.com~~~Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

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