Guest Sam Jolman, a trauma therapist, discusses the importance of arousal in masculinity, distinguishing sensuality from sexuality. He explores the impact of purity culture, the script of arousal, and the connection between arousal and shame. Embracing sensuality and playfulness, the podcast challenges societal norms and encourages men to reclaim their sexuality for awe and joy.

Explore the journey to freedom from gay porn for Christian men, including overcoming shame and normalizing same-sex attraction. Discover the value of authentic male connections for healing, vulnerability, and breaking free from addiction. Embrace commitment and support systems for conquering porn addiction and reclaiming self-worth.

Certified Unwanted Guide Drew and Clinical Psychologist Doug discuss how childhood experiences shape sexual development, addressing porn addiction, attachment wounds, and healing inner child trauma. Insights on confronting parents for closure, understanding internal family systems, and transforming parenting through healing childhood traumas.

Exploring the roots of sexualized emotions, the podcast delves into societal influences and the impact of unmet emotional needs. It discusses how childhood experiences shape emotional development and emphasizes the importance of processing emotions over sexualizing them. The link between emotional pain points and sexual desires is also explored, along with strategies for self-care and stress alleviation.

Noah Filipiak, a pastor, shares his journey of overcoming sexual entitlement and objectification. He discusses the impact of purity culture, the true meaning of love, God's grace, and the power of gratitude in relationships. He emphasizes the need to shift from entitlement to gratitude in marriages for intimacy and trust.

Adam and Karissa King discuss sexless marriages, offering practical tools for reconnection through vulnerability and safe touch. They explore the impact of trauma, communication, and emotional intimacy on relationships. The podcast touches on the transformative power of healing from a sexless marriage and provides guidance on seeking help and marriage resources.

How do you respond to someone else's story with curiosity and compassion? In part 4 of this 4 part series, Marcus Spaur shares his story: "If I Only Could Have Been..."If you love story work, you'd love Husband Material Groups.Apply to join a group at husbandmaterial.com/groupDrew Boa (MA, PSAP) is a Certified Unwanted Guide and Inner Child Recovery Specialist. Drew is the founder of Husband Material, where he helps men outgrow porn. Learn more at husbandmaterial.comWendell Moss (MA, LMHC) is a therapist, lead instructor, and facilitator at The Allender Center. Wendell serves as adjunct faculty at The Seattle School Of Theology & Psychology. Email Wendell at bishopmoss@gmail.comMarcus Spaur is a Certified Husband Material Coach, Inner Child Recovery Specialist, and CCAR Coach. Marcus is the founder of Between The Covers Coaching. Learn more at betweenthecoverscoaching.comChris Inman (M.Div, PSAP) is a Certified Unwanted Guide and Certified Professional Recovery Coach. Chris is the founder of Porn-Free Masculinity. Email Chris at chris@np-recovery.comResources for responding to someone else's story:Attunement: The Key To ConnectionHow To Create Connection In Any Conversation~~~You're invited to The Porn Free Man Online Conference!When: Friday, January 10 and Saturday, January 11, 2025Get your free ticket now at thepornfreeman.com~~~Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

Therapist Wendell Moss discusses writing a story about trauma and sexual experiences in part 3 of the series. Topics include impactful storytelling, engaging the senses, memory imperfections, navigating complex emotions, and using story work for healing and connection.

In this podcast, Chris Inman shares 'The Lonely Walk,' highlighting the importance of story work for men outgrowing porn. They delve into childhood wounds, reflections on past experiences, and the impact of childhood absences on adult relationships. The discussion underlines the significance of personal stories for healing and growth.

Drew Boa, a Certified Unwanted Guide and Inner Child Recovery Specialist, discusses story work and its role in overcoming porn addiction. The podcast explores the power of storytelling, expressive writing for healing, and personal growth. It delves into vulnerability, seeking connection, and navigating adolescent struggles. The importance of story work for personal healing and growth is emphasized throughout.