Husband Material The Sexual Development Model (SDM): A New Perspective on Unwanted Sexual Attraction
Jun 9, 2025
Navigating unwanted sexual attraction through a Christian lens can be challenging. A transformative approach to sexual maturity is discussed, focusing on emotional and spiritual growth. The Sexual Development Model (SDM) encourages viewing unwanted attraction as a common human experience. This model promotes compassion and introspection, advocating for community support and a sense of belonging. Listeners are invited to celebrate their sexuality while working towards personal growth and understanding.
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Side B Champions Celibacy and Community
- Side B advocates celibacy for same-sex attraction, embracing community to avoid isolation.
- It validates singleness and emphasizes strong friendships and church support for healthy living.
Side Y's Identity in Christ
- Side Y teaches identity in Christ over sexual attraction and repentance from sin.
- It highlights that sexuality is part of us but cautions against over-spiritualizing and shame.
Side X's Conversion vs. Transformation
- Side X splits into conversion (trying to change sexuality) and transformation (healing underlying issues).
- The transformation stream focuses on healing trauma, not erasing attraction, leading to healthier maturity.
