Husband Material

Sam Jolman, a trauma therapist and author, delves into the concept of self-objectification, discussing how men often see themselves as tools rather than worthy individuals. He emphasizes the importance of self-kindness and the journey of healing from toxicity, particularly regarding intimacy and desire. The conversation highlights the significance of solitude in fostering deeper connections with oneself and others. They also explore mindfulness through sensual practices, aiming for greater emotional maturity and a richer understanding of male sexuality.

Bill Herring, a seasoned psychotherapist and creator of the Problematic Sexual Behavior Framework, dives deep into the nuances of sexual behavior and addiction. He challenges traditional labels like 'sex addict' and discusses the complexities of identifying these behaviors. Herring introduces the concept of Integrity Abuse Disorder, emphasizing the importance of foundational frameworks for understanding sexual patterns. Throughout the conversation, he advocates for personal choice and responsibility in navigating sexual health, urging a shift towards a more compassionate approach to these sensitive topics.

Explore the concept of enmeshment and its profound effects on men's relationships, particularly with pornography. Discover ten specific sexual symptoms tied to mother enmeshment, like intimacy avoidance and aversion to women. The discussion dives deep into the emotional impacts, revealing how inappropriate guilt can hinder personal growth. Healing and establishing healthy boundaries emerge as key themes, offering listeners valuable insights into nurturing healthier connections.

Hear Ken Freire's story of healing from childhood sexual abuse, achieving lasting freedom from porn, and finding joy and purpose in Christ.Ken Freire owns Scriptures.blog and hosts the Shame(less) Podcast. Ken has been helping Christian men break free from addiction and reclaim their purpose for the last 15 years. Through his own journey of overcoming abuse, shame, and embracing God’s grace, he aims to equip others with biblical wisdom and practical tools for lasting transformation. He's been married for 13 years and has 4 beautiful children. Ken has a Master’s in Divinity from Regent University, is a Full Focus Certified Pro, and a Prepare & Enrich Facilitator. Connect with Ken:Podcast: beshameless.orgWebsite: scriptures.blogInstagram: instagram.com/kenfreireLinkedin: linkedin.com/in/kenfreire/Support the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

Sheila Wray Gregoire, an award-winning author and founder of baremarriage.com, dives deep into the secrets of marital satisfaction. She challenges common beliefs about compromise and reveals how emotional intimacy trumps sexual frequency. Sheila shares compelling survey data that highlights the importance of partnership and mutual support. Discover how being present for each other and addressing foundational needs can rebuild trust. With humor and insight, she redefines what makes a marriage truly fulfilling, highlighting the transformative joys of committed love.

Discover the transformative Five Circles of Freedom, a powerful framework for overcoming porn addiction. Unpack crucial topics like identifying relapse behaviors and understanding risky rituals. Learn how to cultivate healthy habits and develop a vision for a fulfilling life. The conversation emphasizes the importance of setting goals to motivate change and enhance personal freedom.

Dr. Andrew Bauman, founder of the Christian Counseling Center and expert in sexual health and trauma, discusses how men can take an active role in protecting women. He shares findings from his research with over 2,800 Christian women, challenging traditional interpretations of scripture regarding female roles. The conversation tackles the misuse of forgiveness and modesty in religious contexts, and emphasizes the need for men to advocate for women's rights and create safer church environments. Bauman stresses the importance of equality and transformative masculinity.

Dr. Andrew Bauman, founder of the Christian Counseling Center and author, delves into the uncomfortable yet vital topics of abuse and personal growth. He clarifies the nuances of abusive behavior and emphasizes the importance of acknowledging internal trauma. The discussion covers what it means to be a 'good and safe' man, exploring self-awareness and emotional regulation. He also highlights the balance between humility and self-hatred while discussing workshops aimed at empowering men to confront fears and build healthier relationships.

Explore the profound question of how God truly feels about us during our struggles. Discover the depth of divine love through biblical examples like the prodigal son, revealing acceptance and celebration. The importance of community in experiencing and embodying God's love is emphasized, showing how human connections enrich our understanding of divine compassion. Personal reflections add a unique touch, making this discussion relatable and thought-provoking.

Matthew Raabsmith, a clinician and author, and Joanna Raabsmith, a licensed marriage and family therapist, share their journey of healing and rebuilding intimacy after facing sexual betrayal in their own marriage. They introduce the 'Intimacy Pyramid,' outlining the essential components for trust and connection. Listeners learn about the 'Honest Connection' tool, which facilitates deeper communication. Emphasizing self-awareness and safety, they offer invaluable insights on how couples can overcome betrayal and foster lasting love.