Henry Brown, Director of Operations & Support at Husband Material Ministries, shares his expertise as a nationally certified Life Coach and Recovery Coach. He introduces a powerful framework of 'scratches, scabs, and scars' to navigate vulnerability during sexual struggles. The conversation delves into the intricacies of emotional recovery, emphasizing the importance of sharing personal stories and creating safe spaces for connection. Henry highlights how vulnerability fosters healing and prevents isolation, providing valuable insights for those on their journey.

Dr. Alexandra Repke, a Christian psychologist specializing in addiction and personality disorders, dives into the intricate connections between narcissistic personality disorder and porn addiction. She discusses healing for those with narcissistic traits, highlighting the challenges of feedback and self-acceptance. The episode explores the transformative journey of a physician overcoming his addictions and the importance of understanding emotional deficits related to narcissism. Listeners gain insights into the difference between genuine self-love and unhealthy narcissism.

What if the traditional advice on managing lust is misguided? Explore the limitations of 'bouncing your eyes' as a coping strategy and discover a personal story that highlights its flaws. The conversation presents a more empowering alternative, emphasizing mindfulness over repression. Instead of just avoiding temptation, learn how to redefine your responses to sexual attraction. This fresh perspective invites listeners to rethink their approach to managing lustful thoughts.

In this discussion, Chris McKenna, founder of Protect Young Eyes and a leading advocate for digital safety, sheds light on the alarming issue of sextortion, particularly affecting young men. He explains the psychological manipulation behind these threats and shares heart-wrenching cases like that of Jordan Demay. McKenna emphasizes effective preventative strategies and the critical role of parental awareness in safeguarding children online. The conversation also touches on the negative impact of pornography, advocating for healthier relationships in today’s digital landscape.

What does your wife need when you relapse into porn, unwanted sexual behavior, and breaking her trust? Tammy Gustafson explains what is going on inside your wife when you relapse, how you can helpful rather than hurtful, and why it's wise for your wife to have a relapse safety plan.Tammy Gustafson is the founder of the Betrayal Healing Conference. This free conference is for all women who have experienced sexual betrayal, whether you just found out about his acting out, your relationship is healing, or you are divorced and are picking up the pieces. Husband Material is partnering with Betrayal Healing to promote this amazing event! Register here.Tammy is also a Licensed Professional Counselor, coach, EMDR certified clinician, and speaker with 15 years of experience. She is passionate about helping women find their strength and pick up the pieces of their broken hearts after sexual betrayal so that they are able to see beauty, joy, and adventure again.Tammy and Nathaniel Gustafson co-lead a monthly webinar series called Both Sides Of The Story. Highly recommended! Check it out here.Support the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

Clinical psychologist Doug Carpenter, a founding member of Husband Material Ministries, joins recovery pastor Rick Carlson, a certified coach, for an enlightening discussion on trauma healing through psychodrama. They explore the vital role of emotional safety in the healing process and engage in a powerful live demo. Topics include transforming anger into compassion, the importance of community support, and using imaginative visualization to foster self-love. Their collaborative journey highlights the strength found in vulnerability and friendship.

Discover how personal history shapes sexuality and identity, highlighting the impact of family dynamics like abandonment and abuse. Explore the role of artistic expression in processing emotions tied to childhood experiences. Learn about Internal Family Systems and how understanding different personality parts can aid in overcoming sexual struggles. This journey emphasizes emotional healing and developing a love-driven core self to combat challenges related to pornography.

In this engaging discussion, Jordan Castille, a Board Certified Christian Counselor and Certified Sex Addiction Specialist, opens up about a locker room fantasy while illustrating the Fantasy Friday coaching process. He shares personal reflections on body image, vulnerability, and the impact of bullying on self-worth. The conversation shifts to the healing power of companionship and emotional connections, highlighting the importance of self-care in addiction recovery. It's a candid exploration of masculinity, spirituality, and the journey toward healing.

Dive into the fascinating world of sexual fantasies and learn to embrace them as pathways to understanding emotional triggers. Discover the complexities of personal desires in a safe and nurturing environment. Explore the emotional ties that shape your fantasies, and engage with therapeutic approaches like 'Older Brother Coaching' to heal unmet needs. A guided meditation also promotes self-discovery and healing, encouraging deeper connections with your inner self.

Nick Stumbo, Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries and author, sheds light on shocking statistics about porn use among Christians—75% of men and 40% of women engage regularly, yet only 21% wish they didn't. The conversation tackles the urgent need for open discussions in Christian communities, the emotional impact on relationships, and the call for community support. Stumbo emphasizes shifting perspectives on porn addiction and highlights effective strategies for fostering sexual integrity, equipping listeners to confront these sensitive issues.