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In this episode, Doug and Drew explain their powerful, unique approach to psychodrama: DIRECT. You'll learn how this powerful modality can help you experience deeper healing and freedom from porn.D.I.R.E.C.T. = Dynamic, Intuitive, Redemptive, Embodied, Communal Transformation.Come experience D.I.R.E.C.T. at a Husband Material Healing Weekend!  See all upcoming healing weekends and retreats at husbandmaterial.com/retreatJanuary Healing Weekend in Florida: 4 spots left. Apply here.March Healing Weekend in Utah : FULL.Support the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

Dr. Doug Carpenter, a clinical psychologist and advocate for men's sexual education, sheds light on essential topics for adult men. He discusses the need for sex education in adulthood, addressing myths about low testosterone, prostate health, and sperm production. Doug contrasts the realities of sexual relationships with the portrayal of sex in porn, emphasizing the importance of communication and understanding between partners. He also highlights the significance of mentorship and learning to foster healthier sexual experiences.

Discover ten empowering grounding techniques to manage triggers without resorting to porn. Learn vital breathing exercises, including diaphragmatic and Wim Hof methods, to calm your nervous system. Explore mindfulness through the 5-4-3-2-1 technique that hones your focus on the present. Engage with your emotions using befriending questions and creative expression to turn feelings into art. Movement and identity statements further support your journey, emphasizing the importance of community for effective co-regulation.

How does sex trafficking affect boys and men (not just girls and women) and what does healing look like? Hear Mike Chapman's incredible story. This episode is a taken from Mike's recent presentation, "Family-Controlled Sex Trafficking of Young Boys: One Survivor's Healing Journey" at the International Human Trafficking & Social Justice Conference.Mike Chapman is a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and family-controlled sex trafficking, and a survivor of sexual assault by clergy as a young adult. In his spiritual journey to recovery, Mike has had to battle anger, PTSD, anxiety, codependency, and addictive behaviors, including porn addiction. Mike is also a Full-Time Sign Language Interpreter and a Part-Time Santa Claus Portrayal Artist. He’s been happily married to his wife Beth for over 35 years, and they have 2 adult children – Lizzy and Mac. He and Beth live in Hubert, NC. Mike is currently a part-time Recovery Life Coach for both Polar Life Consulting and Husband Material. To find out more or to contact Mike, email him at PolarLifeConsulting@gmail.comCheck out Mike's own podcast:Healing for Male Survivors with Mike ChapmanJoin Mike and Drew at the next Husband Material Retreat at husbandmaterial.com/retreatSupport the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

Dr. Anna Lembke, a leading expert in addiction and psychiatry, shares her personal journey of overcoming a romance-novel addiction. She discusses how digital media hijacks our brain's reward systems and leads to anhedonia, causing a lack of pleasure in life. Anna emphasizes the importance of dopamine fasting and self-binding strategies to reset our brain's dopamine levels. She also explores the concept of pro-social shame, revealing how honest sharing fosters recovery, and outlines the delicate balance between pleasure and pain in addiction.

Curious about sexual ethics? Discover three key principles: integrity, intimacy, and impact. Learn how to align your beliefs with your actions, prioritize your spouse's needs, and assess the emotional consequences of your choices. Drew emphasizes the importance of humility and seeking wise counsel while navigating sensitive topics. This conversation offers practical tools for making informed decisions about sexual behavior.

Jonathan Hernandez, a certified Husband Material coach and Connection Codes expert, dives deep into the world of sexualized emotions. He explores how loneliness during childhood led him to seek comfort in pornography, and explains the brain's dopamine response that ties emotions to sexual behaviors. By naming emotions aloud, he illustrates how to break this cycle and foster authentic connections. Hernandez also emphasizes the importance of emotional awareness and reframing sexual joy as a gift from God, redirecting it towards healthy relationships.

¿Por qué sexualizamos nuestras emociones y cómo podemos procesarlas sin sexualizarlas? Jonathan Hernández responde a estas preguntas en el primer episodio de Husband Material en Español. Aquí tienes la versión en inglés: https://podcast.husbandmaterial.com/713910/episodes/17963054-how-to-process-sexualized-emotions-with-jonathan-hernandezJonathan Hernández es nuevo coach de Husband Material. Cuenta con más de un año de experiencia como coach certificado de Connection Codes. Estudió tres años en la Escuela de Ministerio Sobrenatural de Bethel y tiene una gran pasión por ayudar a las parejas a vivir más conectadas y a los hombres a experimentar una sexualidad sana y plena.Guía gratuita de la Rueda de emociones:rueda.jonnythecoach.com/rueda-794076Guía de las emociones/template diario:rueda.jonnythecoach.com/guia-103093Curso de los fundamentos:rueda.jonnythecoach.com/cursoAplicación para Sesión de Claridad:rueda.jonnythecoach.com/formulario_sesion_claridadSupport the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

Join Dr. Glenn Hill, a clinical sexologist and marriage therapist, and his wife Phyllis, co-founders of Connection Codes, as they share their insights on emotional attunement and relational healing. Together, they reveal how unprocessed emotions and relationships shape our identities. They discuss the deep ties between childhood disconnection and addiction, the delicate balance of vulnerability, and practical tools for emotional expression. Discover how authentic connection strengthens intimacy and healing in personal relationships.

Feelings of being 'too much' and 'not enough' are tackled in a powerful exploration of Mark 6:30-56. The discussion highlights Jesus' compassion amidst exhaustion and interruptions, illustrating how He welcomes our brokenness. With a vivid portrayal of disciples facing a storm, the message emphasizes Jesus as a comforting presence. The call for honesty in our struggles reassures listeners that in Jesus, their feelings and needs are acknowledged as sufficient. It's a heartfelt reminder of divine love and belonging.