Husband Material All About HMA Triads (with Rich Savoy)
Jan 14, 2026
Rich Savoy, the Director of Small Groups for Husband Material, shares his journey from bullying to emotional healing. He explains the unique structure of HMA Triads, emphasizing their role in replacing shame with compassion. Rich discusses the significance of emotional check-ins over tallying actions, and highlights the community-driven approach to processing deep-seated fantasies safely. The power of connection and inner-child work emerges as critical for personal growth in this enlightening conversation.
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Internal Family Systems Unlocks Deeper Healing
- Internal Family Systems (IFS) helps by inviting all parts of you, identifying burdened parts, and unburdening them with curiosity and compassion.
- Rich Savoy credits IFS for revealing why parts act and for enabling healing beyond mere understanding.
From Hit-or-Miss To Led Triads
- Rich had a vision for former HMA students to lead and support new men through triads, and Drew invited him to lead small groups.
- That leadership shift turned inconsistent triads into led groups with trained leaders and better outcomes.
Address Emotions Not Just Behavior
- Talk about the underlying pain and emotions driving acting-out behavior instead of only tracking days or installing more blocks.
- Use triads to surface the deeper need that leads to porn so you can address root causes.
