
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Modern dating doesn’t have to be confusing!
Join Matthew Hussey—New York Times bestselling author, world-renowned dating coach, and host of the #1 YouTube channel for relationship advice—for deep, funny, and brutally honest conversations on everything love, confidence, and relationships. He dives deep into helping people transform the three most important relationships we have in life: the relationship with others, with ourselves, and with life itself.
Every Wednesday, Matthew is joined by his cohosts: his wife and collaborator Audrey Hussey, who brings her signature warmth, wit, and insight; his brother Stephen Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author with a PhD in Philosophy; and Producer David, who adds his unique perspective and humor to the mix.
In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and strategies to navigate finding a lasting relationship. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.
Latest episodes

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Aug 15, 2024 • 42min
257: Don't Let Your Anxiety Sabotage Your Relationships (What To Do Instead!)
Anxiety can wreak havoc on relationships, especially when overthinking someone's interest. The speakers dive into the roots of these anxious behaviors and emphasize the power of self-awareness. They discuss how managing anxiety with compassion can foster healthier connections. A humorous take on control and trust highlights the complexities of relationship dynamics. By understanding our emotional triggers and building self-compassion, we can navigate love more effectively.

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Aug 12, 2024 • 34min
(Matt Monday): My Honest Advice to Someone Scared Of Dating Again
Navigating love after tough dating experiences can feel daunting. Discover five strategies to re-enter the dating scene without losing your peace of mind. Embrace vulnerability and resilience as tools for deeper connections and healing. Learn to set bold standards and leave your comfort zone behind. The importance of pacing in dating is explored, promoting personal growth alongside romantic pursuits. By taking small steps, you can reignite your search for love while maintaining a balanced and fulfilling life.

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Aug 9, 2024 • 11min
(Rewind): 3 Ways to Deal With Rejection in Dating
Fear of rejection often holds people back from being their authentic selves in dating. Discussing how insecurities can warp our view of rejection, the conversation emphasizes the importance of building self-worth. Listeners will learn three effective strategies to shift their mindset and embrace vulnerability. By doing so, they can transform their dating experiences from fear-driven to courageously authentic, enabling them to seize opportunities rather than look back with regret.

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Aug 8, 2024 • 1h 3min
256: "I've Fallen For Someone I Work With...But He's Married"
What do you do when sparks fly with a married colleague? This discussion dives into the complexities of workplace romances and the emotional turmoil they create. The hosts explore the ethical dilemmas of pursuing someone in a committed relationship and tackle the psychological justifications people make. They emphasize the importance of honesty, the risks of 'love bombing,' and the need for setting healthy boundaries. Listeners are urged to weigh their values and well-being before getting entangled in such challenging dynamics.

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Aug 5, 2024 • 29min
(Matt Monday): How I Got Over Shyness and Social Anxiety (And You Can Too!)
Matt Monday, who has a rich personal journey of overcoming shyness and social anxiety, shares his transformative insights on the podcast. He delves into his childhood struggles with being shy and exposes the psychological factors that amplify social anxiety. With a focus on mindset shifts, he discusses how generosity and authentic connections can alleviate feelings of fear in social settings. Emphasizing the importance of community and self-acceptance, Matt offers practical strategies to help listeners embrace social interactions with confidence.

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Aug 2, 2024 • 11min
(Rewind): What to Do When Your Ex Moves on RIDICULOUSLY FAST
Moving on after a breakup can be a challenge, especially when an ex quickly finds someone new. The discussion explores the emotional turmoil this can cause and emphasizes the importance of recognizing feelings and past relationship dynamics. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their experiences, rebuild their self-worth, and set new standards for future relationships. With a focus on healing and empowerment, the conversation promotes hope for brighter connections ahead.

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Jul 31, 2024 • 36min
255: Bad Habits Don’t Have To Ruin Your Life. Do This Instead…
Struggling with bad habits? You're not alone, and there’s hope! The discussion focuses on how to harness your psychology to overcome impulses. Self-compassion is key when breaking unhealthy patterns. External stressors can derail your progress, so understanding their impact is vital. Additionally, the importance of cultivating sustainable habits in relationships is emphasized. Long-term fulfillment should take precedence over fleeting experiences, paving the way for personal growth and successful connections.

Jul 29, 2024 • 26min
(Matt Monday): 7 Steps To Stop Attracting Emotionally Unavailable People
Are you tired of attracting emotionally unavailable partners? Discover the crucial connection between self-trust and your dating patterns. Explore how lack of confidence can lead to relying on others for validation. Learn seven actionable steps to enhance your self-trust, empowering you to make independent decisions in love. With personal anecdotes and practical strategies, you'll find ways to break free from toxic cycles and build healthier relationships.

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Jul 26, 2024 • 13min
(Rewind): You’re Dating Them, But They’re Not Texting Enough
Matthew, an expert in dating dynamics, joins Stephen, a knowledgeable voice on relationship behaviors, and Audrey, who brings insights into dating culture. They tackle the frustrating issue of unresponsive communication after great dates. The trio discusses the importance of creating a personal dating culture and highlights how setting your own standards can lead to healthier relationships. They emphasize self-respect and proactive outreach to bridge the communication gap, making sure you don’t lose hope in connection.

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Jul 25, 2024 • 58min
254: What To Do When The Attraction Isn’t Strong Enough…
Explore navigating attraction that fizzles in person, handling difficult conversations with honesty and grace, overcoming anxiety from past trauma, setting boundaries, offering well wishes, and avoiding manipulation in relationships. Hosts share humor and book success.