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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

(Matt Monday): What To Do When They Aren’t Asking You Questions on a Date

Sep 30, 2024
Matt Monday, a keen observer of dating dynamics, shares valuable insights into those awkward moments when dates feel one-sided. He discusses how to distinguish between self-absorbed and oblivious partners, emphasizing the importance of engagement. With practical strategies for navigating silent stretches and fostering conversation, Matt provides listeners with sample scripts to address communication gaps in a low-pressure way. Tune in for a mix of humor and expert advice on making your next date more interactive!
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Quick takeaways

  • Mutual curiosity during dates is essential for building connection, as one-sided conversations often lead to feelings of frustration and insecurity.
  • Communicating standards and addressing question-asking imbalances play a crucial role in clarifying intentions and enhancing the dating experience.

Deep dives

The Frustration of One-Sided Conversations

One common frustration during dates arises from one person dominating the conversation while the other remains passive. Many people experience feelings of uncertainty and insecurity when they realize their date isn’t asking them questions. This often leads to a lack of connection, where one person leaves feeling unrecognized and questioned. Sharing experiences from social media, the discussion highlights the importance of mutual curiosity in getting to know each other better.

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