Love Life With Matthew Hussey 266: Esther Perel - Part Two! The Best Advice for Finding Love Today
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Oct 9, 2024 
Esther Perel, a New York Times Bestselling author known for her influential works on relationships, returns to discuss modern dating nuances. She addresses the biological clock and advises on dating appropriately for your age. The conversation delves into the myth of soulmates, the complexities of masculinity, and the impact of jealousy. Esther also offers valuable insights on enhancing sexual communication and rekindling desire in long-term relationships. Her unique perspective encourages listeners to rethink expectations and embrace vulnerability in love.
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Date Quickly, Not Endlessly
- Use apps but set boundaries to avoid burnout and endless messaging.
- Meet quickly for a date or call to test chemistry rather than prolonged text exchange.
Biology Shapes Dating Timelines
- Biological differences create real timing pressures that affect dating choices.
- Acknowledge unequal timelines instead of pretending equality erases biological realities.
Reorder Parenthood And Partnership
- Consider shuffling the order: find a co-parent separately from a romantic partner.
- Explore co-parenting, IVF, or alternative family structures rather than relying on 'one person for all roles.'