Sex and Psychology Podcast

Esmé Louise James, a PhD candidate at the University of Melbourne and author of Kinky History, dives into the fascinating evolution of kink and sexuality. She discusses how leather and nylon became iconic fetish materials and the cultural significance behind foot fetishes. The conversation also covers the origins of pornography, including its political uses and the rise of animated porn. Esmé reveals how sexual desire persists even through societal restrictions, emphasizing the importance of open dialogue about our sexual history.

Esmé Louise James, a PhD candidate at the University of Melbourne and author of 'Kinky History', sheds light on the surprisingly rich history of sex toys. She explores the ancient origins of dildos, dating back 28,000 years, and unpacks the evolution of vibrators from medical devices aimed at men to symbols of sexual pleasure. The conversation also humorously addresses the unconventional marketing tactics for sexual wellness products and reveals the fascinating history of cock rings and ancient contraception methods.

In this insightful discussion, Dr. Emily Jamea, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and author of Anatomy of Desire, shares her expertise on maintaining passion in relationships. She emphasizes the role of curiosity in enhancing intimacy and offers tips for couples to embrace new experiences. The conversation also highlights the importance of vulnerability and attunement, likening emotional connection to the rhythm of a ballroom dance. By fostering deeper understanding, couples can cultivate a more fulfilling and passionate sex life.

In this engaging conversation, Dr. Emily Jamea, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and author of Anatomy of Desire, tackles the modern distractions impacting our sexual experiences. She explains how technology and multitasking can hinder intimacy, sharing practical strategies to enhance presence during sex. Discover the concept of 'flow state' and its importance for pleasure, alongside techniques for embodying connection through touch. Jamea's insights aim to help couples deepen their relationships and cultivate passion through mindful practices.

Join Dr. Nicole McNichols, an expert in psychology and co-author of a key textbook on human sexuality, as she explores the impact of social media on dating. They discuss how online interactions can trigger insecurities and complicate relationship dynamics. Nicole highlights the blurry lines around cheating and emphasizes the challenges of deciphering intentions in this digital landscape. She also shares mindful strategies for healthier social media use, promoting deeper connections while navigating the pitfalls of modern romance.

Nicole McNichols, an Associate Teaching Professor at the University of Washington and co-author of a prominent sexuality textbook, joins the discussion on how Generation Z approaches sex and relationships. They explore why Gen Z is experiencing lower sexual frequency but increasing interest in kink, as well as their unique preference for monogamy. The rise in LGBTQ+ identification among young adults is examined, alongside how online dating shapes their romantic expectations. A fascinating look at the shifting landscape of intimacy and identity awaits!

Mary Jane Minkin, a practicing gynecologist and certified clinician on menopause, joins the conversation to unpack intriguing listener questions. They delve into whether libido is genetically determined, shedding light on the science behind sexual desire. The discussion also provides helpful advice for a male listener struggling to reach orgasm. Finally, they explore ways to enhance sexual desire in post-menopausal women, emphasizing emotional connection and treatment options for improved intimacy. A candid and informative talk about sexuality at different life stages!

Marta Meana, a Professor of Psychology at UNLV, is known for her work on female sexual desire and genital pain. In this engaging discussion, she unpacks the complexities of women's sexual desire, revealing that it is unique and influenced by societal and relational dynamics. The conversation touches on the challenges of maintaining passion in long-term relationships, the significance of being desired, and the role of erotic self-focus in enhancing women's sex lives. Prepare for a thought-provoking exploration of intimacy and the nuances of desire!

Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons, an award-winning Associate Professor known for her work on sexual wellness, dives into the rise of voluntary celibacy in this engaging conversation. She discusses the meanings and motivations behind choosing to forego sex, particularly among women. Hargons also highlights the benefits and potential challenges of celibacy, emphasizing self-discovery. The impact of the orgasm gap on women’s sexual choices and societal pressures around sexual ideals further enrich the discussion, making it a thought-provoking listen.

Candice Nicole Hargons, an award-winning Associate Professor at Emory University, explores the ingredients for good sex, drawing parallels between intimacy and cooking. She shares tips on making sex fun and enhancing connection, highlighting the importance of communication and mindfulness. Listeners discover how to better articulate desires and establish boundaries, while also embracing personal narratives in sexual education. With practical insights, Hargons encourages everyone to cultivate more pleasure and connectivity in their intimate lives.