Sex and Psychology Podcast
Episode 385: Sex Tips For Gay And Queer Men
Apr 4, 2025
In this insightful discussion, Tom Bruett, a licensed marriage and family therapist and founder of the Queer Relationship Institute, shares vital sex tips for gay and queer men. He critiques how porn misrepresents sexual experiences and provides practical advice for pleasurable anal sex, tackling performance issues and body image concerns. Tom emphasizes the value of sober sex, communicates the importance of sexual compatibility, and guides listeners on fostering open conversations about desires in relationships.
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Quick takeaways
- Relying on porn for sexual education creates misunderstandings about gay sex, emphasizing the need for inclusive and comprehensive sexual education.
- Understanding genital fit and addressing performance issues through open communication can significantly enhance sexual pleasure and relationship intimacy.
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The Flaws of Traditional Sex Education
Traditional sex education programs often fail to address the needs of LGBTQ individuals, operating primarily under the assumption of heterosexuality. This lack of inclusivity contributes to misinformation and disempowerment within the LGBTQ community, particularly regarding sexual health and safety. Many LGBTQ individuals find themselves relying on porn as their primary source of sexual education, which can lead to misunderstandings, as porn often presents unrealistic scenarios rather than practical guidance. Consequently, there's a pressing need for more comprehensive and nuanced sexual education that caters specifically to the diverse experiences of the LGBTQ community.
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