Tom Bruett

In this discussion, Tom Bruett, a licensed marriage and family therapist and founder of the Queer Relationship Institute, sheds light on the surprising prevalence of erectile dysfunction (ED) among gay men. The conversation delves into performance anxiety and its effect on sexual health, while also tackling how recreational drugs can influence sexual functioning. Bruett offers practical strategies for improving erectile function and re-evaluates perceptions around premature ejaculation in different contexts, fostering a deeper understanding of queer sexual wellness.

In this engaging discussion with Tom Bruett, a licensed marriage and family therapist and founder of the Queer Relationship Institute, listeners gain insight into the unique dynamics of gay men's relationships. They explore the various stages queer relationships undergo and tackle topics like 'daddy issues' and the challenges of moving past the honeymoon phase. The importance of understanding attachment styles is emphasized, alongside tips for finding gay-affirming therapists. Prepare for a thoughtful dive into relationships crafted for queer experiences!

Tom Bruett, therapist and founder of the Queer Relationship Institute, offers concise guidance on keeping your identity in relationships. He explores codependency, enmeshment, and their roots. The conversation covers healing through differentiation, practical self-regulation and journaling, and building interdependence that balances autonomy and closeness.