
Sex and Psychology Podcast
The Sex and Psychology Podcast is the sex ed you never got in school—and won’t find anywhere else. Kinsey Institute researcher Dr. Justin Lehmiller takes you on a journey through the psychology of sex and relationships, offering practical tips along the way that can help you take your intimate life to the next level. Learn more on Dr. Lehmiller’s blog at sexandpsychology.com
Latest episodes

Jun 28, 2024 • 33min
Episode 305: Mastering the Art of Mindful Dating
Dating and relationship expert, Marie Thouin, PhD, discusses the six pillars of mindful dating including clarifying your 'dating vision,' empowering self-concept, mindful swiping on dating apps, and effective communication for deeper connections. Learn how to approach dating intentionally and increase your chances of finding lasting happiness.

Jun 25, 2024 • 32min
Episode 304: What Is Compersion?
Marie Thouin, a dating and relationship coach, discusses compersion in non-monogamous relationships. Topics include learning to feel compersion, age's impact on compersion, and different approaches to cultivating compersion. The discussion explores the dynamics of compersion and its relation to sex and relationships.

Jun 21, 2024 • 50min
Episode 303: Common Things We Get Wrong About Sex (Essential Listen)
Dr. Lisa Dawn Hamilton debunks sex myths like the G-spot, penis size, and peeing after sex. Discusses pubic hair grooming's impact on STI risk and men having multiple orgasms. Explores research on brain responses in monogamous vs. non-monogamous men and the development of kinks through conditioning.

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Jun 18, 2024 • 37min
Episode 302: The Psychology Behind Attraction To Monsters
Researcher and writer Ella Gallego discusses the allure of monster fantasies, exploring physical attributes, BDSM overlap, fear arousal, appeal to women and LGBTQ+ individuals, and the importance of understanding sexual fantasies origins.

Jun 14, 2024 • 37min
Episode 301: Monsters With Serious Sex Appeal
Explore the allure of monsters as sexy beings with a researcher's insights. Discover why people are attracted to monsters and how they are portrayed in media. Uncover the history of monster fantasies and their psychological appeal. Learn about 'monster fuckers' and their emotional connections with monstrous figures.

Jun 11, 2024 • 29min
Episode 300: Let’s Talk About Penis Pumps!
This podcast delves into the world of penis pumps, discussing their benefits in improving sexual self-confidence and erectile health. Dr. Lance Frank provides expert advice on how to use these devices correctly and safely. Topics include how penis pumps work, their advantages over other enhancements, best practices for usage, and considerations when purchasing one.

Jun 7, 2024 • 28min
Episode 299: Let’s Talk With a Pelvic Doc
Dr. Lance Fran, a pelvic health physical therapist, discusses the importance of male pelvic health and the benefits of Kegel exercises for men. Topics include the role of pelvic health physical therapists, the significance of male pelvic health, how to determine if Kegel exercises are suitable, and changing perspectives on men's pelvic health.

Jun 4, 2024 • 29min
Episode 298: The Keys To Good Sex, According To A Sex Therapist
Psychotherapist and sex therapist Todd Baratz discusses the keys to good sex, including communication, self-awareness, and selfishness. The podcast explores societal norms, empowerment, and the importance of authentic pleasure in sex. Topics include navigating conflicting sex advice, societal pressures, and the link between sexual fantasies and personal beliefs.

May 31, 2024 • 30min
Episode 297: How To Love Someone Without Losing Your Mind
Psychotherapist Todd Baratz challenges the oversimplified relationship advice found online and advocates for a more nuanced approach to love and happiness. He discusses the harmful effects of unrealistic expectations in relationships, the limitations of self-help books, and the importance of communication and setting expectations for a healthy partnership.

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May 28, 2024 • 30min
Episode 296: How to Have Pleasurable Anal Sex
Dr. Evan Goldstein from Bespoke Surgical discusses tips for pleasurable anal sex, including diet, anal douching, lube selection, and relaxation techniques. He emphasizes the importance of preparation and provides beginner-friendly penetration tips.