Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting

Optimal Living Daily | Greg Audino

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Aug 31, 2024 • 7min

2295: When Is it A Fair Amount of Time for a Guy to "Know" That He Wants You? by Evan Marc Katz on Dating Tips

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2295: In "When Is it A Fair Amount of Time for a Guy to 'Know' That He Wants You?" by Evan Marc Katz, the author emphasizes the importance of patience and avoiding premature decisions in budding relationships. He advises against impulsive actions driven by insecurity and suggests instead allowing relationships to develop organically. Katz highlights the value of mirroring the behavior of the other person to maintain balance and clarity in assessing the relationship's potential. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/when-is-it-a-fair-amount-of-time-for-a-guy-to-know-that-he-wants-you Quotes to ponder: "This guy likes you and you're doing everything in your power to stop him." "Have the confidence and patience to let things evolve at an organic pace." "Your 'defriending' was pure ego." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Aug 30, 2024 • 7min

2294: 4 Ways Parents Can Balance Couple Time & Family Time by Terry Gaspard of Gottman on Parenting Advice

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2294: Parents often struggle to balance couple time and family time, sometimes neglecting their relationship as they focus on their children. Terry Gaspard discusses how parents can strengthen their marriage by scheduling alone time, building connections in small moments, and involving the whole family in quality time. By valuing both their partnership and parenthood, parents can model healthy relationships for their children. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.gottman.com/blog/4-ways-parents-can-balance-couple-time-family-time/ Quotes to ponder: "Parents need alone time to recharge and focus on their romantic relationship which brought them together in the first place." "When we interview couples planning marriage, we learn that most of them have tons of fun early in the relationship. But for too many, fun fizzles out as time goes by." "You don't have to choose between being a good parent and a good partner." Episode references: Fighting for Your Marriage: https://www.amazon.com/Fighting-Your-Marriage-Couple-Strengthen/dp/0470485914 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Aug 29, 2024 • 7min

2293: 7 Tips to Stay Cool When Your Child Acts Up by Dr. Laura Markham of Peaceful Parent Happy Kids on Parenting

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2293: When children act out, it's natural for parents to feel anger, but managing this emotion is key to effective parenting. Dr. Laura Markham shares practical strategies to stay calm, including recognizing the signs of anger, using a pause button, and reframing thoughts to prevent escalation. By practicing these techniques, parents can transform challenging moments into opportunities for growth and connection with their children. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.peacefulparenthappykids.com/read/how-can-you-stay-cool-when-your-kid-acts-up Quotes to ponder: "Staying cool is essential to actually solving the problem, instead of making it worse." "Tell your child that you're sorry you got so upset, and the two of you are going to try a Do-over." "Every time you resist acting when you're angry, you're rewiring your brain, so managing your anger gets easier every time you do it." Episode references: Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids: How to Stop Yelling and Start Connecting: https://www.amazon.com/Peaceful-Parent-Happy-Kids-Connecting/dp/0399160280 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Aug 28, 2024 • 10min

2292: One Thing Separates Creators From Consumers by Benjamin Hardy on Personal Growth, Love & Success

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2292: To achieve true fulfillment, Benjamin Hardy argues, one must transition from being a consumer focused on personal gain to a creator driven by a desire to give and serve. This transformative approach not only leads to greater contributions and personal growth but also allows for a deeper experience of love and success. Hardy challenges readers to introspect on their motivations, urging a shift towards a purpose that transcends self-interest. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://medium.com/thrive-global/the-difference-between-those-who-always-remain-children-and-the-few-who-truly-succeed-a5c7669224d4 Quotes to ponder: "Only a select few will become something, not for the accolades and outcomes, but for the purpose of intensifying the process of their work and contribution." "The world gives to the givers and takes from the takers." "When you are completely motivated to serve and give, you have complete confidence the outcome will be successful." Episode references: Viktor E. Frankl's quote on success: https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/6707-don-t-aim-at-success-the-more-you-aim-at-it Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Aug 27, 2024 • 9min

2291: [Part 2] Best Strategies to Help You Deal With Someone Who Plays the Victim by Sabrina of The Budding Optimist

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2291: In this insightful piece, Sabrina from The Budding Optimist shares strategies for dealing with individuals who habitually play the victim. She emphasizes the importance of encouraging problem-solving over venting, recognizing but not validating their perceived victimhood, tactfully challenging their narratives, and setting clear boundaries. These approaches not only help in managing such interactions but also promote healthier, more constructive behaviors. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://buddingoptimist.com/how-to-deal-with-someone-who-plays-the-victim/ Quotes to ponder: "Don't let them pour out their grievances like a broken dam. You have to shut the gate quickly and firmly, without being rude of course." "Be very clear that while you accept and understand their feelings, you may not agree with their perceived reality." "If you don't, sooner or later you're going to run empty. And then as soon as you say you can't give them all the attention they want, you're deemed 'not nice' anyway." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Aug 26, 2024 • 8min

2290: [Part 1] Best Strategies to Help You Deal With Someone Who Plays the Victim by Sabrina of The Budding Optimist

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2290: Sabrina of The Budding Optimist shares insights on dealing with individuals who exhibit a victim mentality. Through her experience in HR, she explains how these individuals often perceive themselves as targets of unfair treatment, focusing on negative perspectives. Sabrina introduces strategies to help such people shift their mindset and recognize other viewpoints. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://buddingoptimist.com/how-to-deal-with-someone-who-plays-the-victim/ Quotes to ponder: "People with a victim mentality project a sense of helplessness and vulnerability." "They like to exaggerate their negative experiences and feelings. Every little problem is 'the end of the world'." "The more they dwell on this negative perspective, the more resentful they feel, and the more they tell others about it." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Aug 25, 2024 • 8min

2289: Three Ways Social Media Makes It Harder to Get Emotionally Divorced by Dr. Margaret Rutherford on Breaking Up

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2289: Dr. Margaret Rutherford delves into the challenges of emotionally divorcing from a partner in the age of social media. She explains how platforms like Facebook and Instagram can prolong emotional turmoil by keeping individuals tied to their exes' lives. The piece encourages readers to focus on personal healing and establish healthier communication habits. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/getting-emotionally-divorced-three-ways-social-media-prolongs-the-process/ Quotes to ponder: "It's much healthier to focus on your own healing, as you've got a rough enough ride without making it rougher." "You can only control your end of that relationship. And getting emotionally divorced - so that you're not looking for anything from them other than a co-parent - needs to be your focus." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Aug 25, 2024 • 8min

2288: Getting Back Into Shape by Mark Fisher of Mark Fisher Fitness on Track and Maintain Physical Progress

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2288: Mark Fisher provides a compassionate and practical guide to reclaiming your fitness journey after a hiatus. He emphasizes focusing on behaviors over immediate results and suggests manageable strategies, like easing back into workouts and setting environmental cues, to rebuild confidence and momentum. Fisher's advice helps dispel shame and encourages a positive mindset, making it easier to get back on track and maintain progress. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://markfisherfitness.com/getting-back-into-shape/ Quotes to ponder: "To get back on the wagon - you just have to get back on the wagon." "But in the beginning your focus needs to be on behavior, not results." "There's an upside to getting back on the fitness wagon. You will often find you can attain your previous levels of fitness far faster than you had anticipated." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Aug 24, 2024 • 10min

2287: Become a Better Partner by Chalene Johnson on Healthy Partnerships in Marriage & Business

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2287: Chalene Johnson shares invaluable insights on fostering a healthy and thriving partnership, both in marriage and business. By focusing on each other's strengths, understanding personal triggers, and engaging in each other's interests, couples can strengthen their bond and create a harmonious relationship. These principles not only enhance personal connections but also contribute to successful joint ventures. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.chalenejohnson.com/become-a-better-partner/ Quotes to ponder: "Couples that stay together don't do it by accident. They work for it." "Stop getting so frustrated with your partner's weaknesses - because he or she is so strong in other areas!" "When you know what upsets your partner and why, then you'll take things less personal." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Aug 23, 2024 • 7min

2286: 8 Fun, Mindful Activities for Parents And Kids by Rachael Kable with Erica Layne.co on Parenting & Mindfulness

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2286: Discover how mindful activities can deepen your connection with your children while cultivating a more present and joyful life. In this insightful narration by Rachael Kable, explore simple yet profound practices like creative art, journaling, and nature adventures that help both parents and kids develop mindfulness together. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://ericalayne.co/8-fun-mindful-activities-for-parents-kids/ Quotes to ponder: "Better sleep, stronger relationships, more calm and enjoyment, increased self-awareness and so much more." "Mindfulness is the practice of being present in the moment, letting go of the past and future, and being open to your experience (without being judgmental of it)." "Adventures are wonderful opportunities to be mindful as they naturally draw our awareness and bring us into the now." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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