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Episode 2291:
In this insightful piece, Sabrina from The Budding Optimist shares strategies for dealing with individuals who habitually play the victim. She emphasizes the importance of encouraging problem-solving over venting, recognizing but not validating their perceived victimhood, tactfully challenging their narratives, and setting clear boundaries. These approaches not only help in managing such interactions but also promote healthier, more constructive behaviors.
Read along with the original article(s) here: https://buddingoptimist.com/how-to-deal-with-someone-who-plays-the-victim/
Quotes to ponder:
"Don't let them pour out their grievances like a broken dam. You have to shut the gate quickly and firmly, without being rude of course."
"Be very clear that while you accept and understand their feelings, you may not agree with their perceived reality."
"If you don't, sooner or later you're going to run empty. And then as soon as you say you can't give them all the attention they want, you're deemed 'not nice' anyway."
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