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Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage & Parenting

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Sep 1, 2024 • 12min

2297: Dear Marriage, Humanity Wants a Divorce from You by Dr. Kelly Flanagan on Marital Advice & Communication

Dr. Kelly Flanagan, a respected clinical psychologist and author, dives into the changing perceptions of marriage, particularly in Japan, where younger generations opt for singlehood. He discusses the unrealistic expectations that lead to marital disappointment and the importance of mutual surrender for true fulfillment. Flanagan emphasizes that instead of asking what we want from marriage, we should consider what marriage desires from us, shifting the focus from personal gain to collective growth and understanding in relationships.
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Sep 1, 2024 • 14min

2296: How to Stop Procrastinating: A Psychologist’s Trick for Tackling “I’ll Do It Later" by Dr. Allison Niebes-Davis of Dr. Allison Answers

Dr. Allison Niebes-Davis, a psychologist specializing in procrastination and anxiety, shares invaluable insights on breaking the cycle of delay. She introduces a unique four-question technique designed to confront the underlying anxiety that fuels procrastination. Listeners learn how to tackle their to-do lists while recognizing the real consequences of procrastination. Allison emphasizes that tasks often don't get easier with time and encourages a shift in mindset to combat this maddening habit.
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Aug 31, 2024 • 11min

2295: When Is it A Fair Amount of Time for a Guy to "Know" That He Wants You? by Evan Marc Katz on Dating Tips

Evan Marc Katz, an author known for his insights on relationship dynamics, shares valuable dating advice. He discusses the significance of patience in budding relationships, emphasizing that impulsive decisions often stem from insecurity. Katz highlights that a guy typically needs two to three months to feel ready for commitment. He encourages mirroring behaviors for clarity and urges listeners to allow relationships to develop naturally, avoiding the urge to rush based on emotions. This approach fosters healthier connections.
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Aug 30, 2024 • 11min

2294: 4 Ways Parents Can Balance Couple Time & Family Time by Terry Gaspard of Gottman on Parenting Advice

Terry Gaspard, a parenting expert focused on couple and family dynamics, shares insightful strategies for parents struggling to balance their romantic relationships and family life. She emphasizes the importance of scheduling alone time to recharge connections, and the power of small, shared moments to enhance intimacy. Gaspard highlights that parents can enjoy both roles without sacrificing their partnership, ultimately modeling healthy relationships for their children. Fun in relationships can and should continue even while raising a family!
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Aug 29, 2024 • 11min

2293: 7 Tips to Stay Cool When Your Child Acts Up by Dr. Laura Markham of Peaceful Parent Happy Kids on Parenting

Dr. Laura Markham, a parenting expert dedicated to peaceful parenting, shares valuable insights for managing emotions when kids misbehave. She emphasizes the importance of staying calm to effectively resolve conflicts. Highlighted strategies include recognizing anger triggers, employing a mental pause, and transforming difficult moments into growth opportunities. Dr. Markham encourages parents to practice emotional regulation, which not only improves interactions but also reshapes their responses over time.
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Aug 28, 2024 • 14min

2292: One Thing Separates Creators From Consumers by Benjamin Hardy on Personal Growth, Love & Success

Benjamin Hardy, an expert on personal growth, discusses the critical transition from consumerism to creativity. He emphasizes that true fulfillment comes from a service-oriented mindset, encouraging listeners to reassess their motivations. Hardy contrasts creators, who give selflessly, with consumers focused on personal gain. The conversation is infused with insights from figures like Viktor Frankl, revealing that meaningful success stems from dedication to others, fostering deeper relationships and a purposeful life.
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Aug 27, 2024 • 13min

2291: [Part 2] Best Strategies to Help You Deal With Someone Who Plays the Victim by Sabrina of The Budding Optimist

Sabrina from The Budding Optimist shares insightful strategies for dealing with habitual victim mentality. She emphasizes the need for encouraging problem-solving instead of venting, while recognizing feelings without validating perceived victimhood. Setting clear boundaries is crucial, as is the art of tactfully challenging problematic narratives. Sabrina highlights how these approaches promote healthier interactions and prevent emotional burnout, making it easier to navigate such complex relationships.
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Aug 26, 2024 • 12min

2290: [Part 1] Best Strategies to Help You Deal With Someone Who Plays the Victim by Sabrina of The Budding Optimist

Sabrina, a skilled HR professional and the voice behind The Budding Optimist, shares her wisdom on navigating interactions with individuals who have a victim mentality. She explains how these individuals often see themselves as unfairly treated and fixate on negativity. Sabrina offers practical strategies to help shift their mindset, emphasizing the importance of empathy and support. Listeners learn to recognize these traits, set boundaries, and foster healthier relationships while managing their own emotional well-being.
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Aug 25, 2024 • 12min

2289: Three Ways Social Media Makes It Harder to Get Emotionally Divorced by Dr. Margaret Rutherford on Breaking Up

Dr. Margaret Rutherford, a psychologist specializing in emotional healing, discusses the struggles of getting emotionally divorced in the era of social media. She reveals how platforms like Facebook and Instagram can trap individuals in their exes' lives, complicating the healing process. Margaret encourages listeners to prioritize personal healing through self-compassion and healthy communication. She highlights the need to focus on co-parenting rather than lingering emotional attachments, paving the way for a healthier future.
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Aug 25, 2024 • 12min

2288: Getting Back Into Shape by Mark Fisher of Mark Fisher Fitness on Track and Maintain Physical Progress

Mark Fisher, a compassionate fitness expert, shares insights on reclaiming your fitness journey after a break. He emphasizes the importance of focusing on behaviors instead of immediate results. Mark discusses strategies to ease back into workouts, like setting environmental cues and preparing in advance. He dispels feelings of shame, encouraging a positive mindset that helps rebuild confidence. With practical tips, he assures listeners that returning to previous fitness levels can happen faster than expected.

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