Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting 2844: Why You Should Ignore Your Previous Experience With Men by Evan Marc Katz on Dating with Openness
Dec 24, 2025
Explore how challenging old beliefs about dating can open doors to lasting love. One woman's journey shows that embracing new possibilities led her to happiness, while another remains stuck in frustration due to fixed mindsets. The contrast between these two experiences highlights the power of self-awareness and the willingness to adapt. Quotes like "online dating is creepy" spark reflection on personal assumptions. Tune in for insights on transforming your dating outlook for successful connections.
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Sister's Surprise Online Match
- Greg Audino recounts how his sister Daryl doubted online dating but tried it after reading Evan Marc Katz's book.
- She met her husband via a recommendation and moved cross-country, later marrying and househunting.
Client Stuck In Fixed Beliefs
- Greg shares the example of Amy, a 42-year-old woman who refuses to change her beliefs about men and online dating.
- Despite being well-informed, Amy remains stuck because she blames external factors and won't try new approaches.
Experience Feels True, But It's Not Absolute
- Past experiences feel real and therefore become treated as objective truth, shaping future behavior.
- That self-fulfilling mindset can prevent people from trying approaches that would produce different outcomes.