Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting 2843: Precision Dating Advice for Men by Dr. Laura Dabney on Practical Relationship Skills
Dec 23, 2025
Dr. Laura Dabney shares a pragmatic approach to dating for men, emphasizing the importance of precision in partner selection. She likens dating to high-stakes investing, urging men to evaluate relationships critically. The conversation includes strategies for casual dating, warning against early red flags, and the importance of moving on from unhealthy situations. With insightful quotes about the nature of dating and relationship choices, listeners learn how to navigate their dating lives with clarity and confidence.
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Loyalty Can Mask Poor Testing
- Men often commit too quickly because they see themselves as loyal problem-solvers.
- That rush can turn into investing in an untested relationship with predictable downstream costs.
Date Like You're Test Driving
- Cast a wide net during casual dating and test compatibility before committing.
- Treat dating like car shopping: research, test drive, and ensure it fits your needs.
Require Clear Major-Problem Resolution
- Before committing, evaluate whether major issues are resolved and stable.
- If a partner brings unresolved financial, legal, or substance problems, move on.