Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting 2838: What a Real-Life Bully Tells Her Kids by Kate Brierly with Healthline on Raising Kinder Kids
Dec 19, 2025
A former bully opens up about her past, revealing the insecurities that fueled her behavior. She reflects on how maturity led her to understand the social costs of bullying. Honest conversations with her kids about her experiences aim to foster empathy and kindness. The discussion highlights the pervasive nature of bullying in various settings, urging a collective effort to combat it. With a powerful message on vulnerability, this conversation challenges parents to guide their children towards accountability.
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Confession Of A Former Bully
- Kate Brierly admits she went through a genuine bully phase in childhood and still regrets it today.
- She describes specific acts like calling out a friend for repeating outfits and spreading rumors to hurt others.
Bullying Stems From Insecurity And Group Dynamics
- Insecurity and social dynamics drove Kate's bullying, not innate cruelty.
- She realized exclusion and fear-based leadership only cost real friendships over time.
Tell Kids Honest Lessons About Behavior
- Be honest with your children about past mistakes to prepare them for real-world behavior.
- Teach them they own their actions and can set boundaries for what they will and won't accept.