Xander Marin

Join licensed sex therapist Vanessa Marin and her husband Xander as they delve into why intimacy struggles persist in relationships. With two decades of experience, Vanessa highlights the emotional barriers and societal pressures impacting sexual desire. They discuss the importance of open communication and playfulness, exploring the decline in interest among younger generations. Insights into understanding different sex drives and the significance of rekindling connection make this conversation both relatable and enlightening.

In this engaging discussion, licensed sex therapist Vanessa Marin and her husband, co-host Xander Marin, tackle the intimacy struggles of high-achieving women. They explore how perfectionism and the mental load diminish desire. With practical tools like transition rituals and the 'Get Intimate' method—focused on gratitude, eye contact, and touch—they offer straightforward steps to rekindle connections. They also address the impact of changing gender roles and provide insights to make household responsibilities fairer, helping couples feel more seen and connected.

Join sex therapist Vanessa Marin and her partner Xander Marin, co-hosts of the Pillow Talks podcast, as they tackle the often awkward subject of initiating sex. They explore why it can be a struggle and share effective strategies to rekindle desire and express intimacy. Discover how to recognize your own initiation style, say no without hurting feelings, and encourage your partner to take the lead. With practical tips and insights, they provide a roadmap to enhance connection and intimacy in relationships.