

Natalie Lue
Writer, speaker and podcaster known for The Baggage Reclaim Sessions (3M+ downloads) and books on relationships and self-help; author of Let Go and The Joy of Saying No.
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Sep 28, 2025 • 42min
#162: Natalie Lue — Publishing Mini-Memoirs, Writing Difficult Truths, Choosing Indie Publishing
In this conversation, Natalie Lue, a beloved writer and podcaster of The Baggage Reclaim Sessions, explores the themes of grief and letting go in her new book, Let Go. She discusses the challenges and techniques of writing about personal pain while maintaining boundaries, using tools like journaling and pattern-spotting. Natalie shares the importance of self-care in the writing process and why she chose the unique publishing model of The Pound Project. With insightful prompts, she encourages writers to reflect deeply and confront their truths.

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Feb 2, 2023 • 1h 5min
How to Stop Pleasing Everyone But Yourself | Natalie Lue
How might your life be different if you’d gotten comfortable saying no in your earliest days? No to other people’s opinions about everything from education to careers to relationships. No to someone else telling you what to prioritize and how to spend your time. No to people you’ve never met offering their opinion on what you should or shouldn’t do, then tell you how they think your choice worked out.How would your life be different, if you’d gotten okay with choosing for you, and not just for acceptance or obligation? And, how might you reclaim it, if you started getting clear on when and what to say yes or no to from this moment on? And, rid yourself of the need to please? That’s what we’re diving into with today’s guest, Natalie Lue, as a self-proclaimed recovering people pleaser who's spent the past nearly two decades unwinding the need to please and reclaiming freedom and ease. Natalie is a writer, speaker, podcaster, artist, and founder of one of the longest-running personal-growth websites in the world, Baggage Reclaim and The Baggage Reclaim Sessions podcast, and author of the new book, The Joy of Saying No: A Simple Plan to Stop People Pleasing, Reclaim Boundaries, and Say Yes to the Life You Want. In our conversation, Natalie opens up about her struggles with people-pleasing, something we all know about and have experienced to some degree. We talk about the life events that brought Natalie back to herself, back to reclaiming her boundaries and life, and we get into some of the nitty-gritty of what it looks like to say yes to the life you want and how to embrace the joy of saying no. You can find Natalie at: Website | Instagram | The Baggage Reclaim Sessions podcastIf you LOVED this episode you’ll also love the conversations we had with Susan Piver about the Enneagram and how it helps us relate to others and also set boundaries.Check out our offerings & partners: My New Book SparkedMy New Podcast SPARKED: Visit Our Sponsor Page For Great Resources & Discount CodesCheck out our offerings & partners: Beam Dream Powder: Visit https://shopbeam.com/GOODLIFE and use code GOODLIFE to get our exclusive discount of up to 40% off. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Nov 17, 2022 • 46min
How to Set Boundaries and Improve Self Worth With Natalie Lue
Request A Customized Workshop For Your CompanyIn this episode, Natalie Lue, Relationship Expert, Author, Speaker and Podcaster, discusses how to know your people pleasing, how empowering it can be to overcome it, and some strategies to overcome it.Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedInFollow Natalie on LinkedInClick here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race!Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!

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Mar 20, 2023 • 50min
The Joy of Saying No with Natalie Lue
Hey team, this week I’m talking with Natalie Lue about her book, The Joy of Saying No. Natalie is the author of the popular relationship and self-esteem blog Baggage Reclaim, as well as the host of The Baggage Reclaim Sessions podcast. With ADHD, we can often end up as people-pleasers, always putting other people’s needs above our own. And while being helpful is a great trait, we also need to make sure that we’re taking time for ourselves as well. In our conversation today, Natalie and I discuss how to get out of people pleasing and work on setting up boundaries to help keep us on track with what we really want to be doing. Support me on Patreon Feel free to ask me a question on my Contact Page Find the full show note at HackingYourADHD.com/136 This Episode's Top Tips People pleasing is about suppressing one's needs, desires, expectations, feelings, and opinions to prioritize others' needs and avoid negative consequences. By people pleasing, we create unspoken contracts, and this can lead to frustration when the other party does not fulfill their end. We are often dropping hints instead of being direct about our needs because of our fear of rejection or negative consequences. While it can be hard to say no, it is vital that we are using our no to help us set boundaries that will help us curtail our people-pleasing and allow to prioritize our own well-being.

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Nov 30, 2023 • 47min
From Pleaser to Power: Shifting Dynamics in Relationships with Natalie Lue
Natalie Lue, Relationship Expert, discusses the impact of people-pleasing on relationships and self-esteem. They explore the motives behind people-pleasing behaviors and unveil its hidden agenda. The importance of setting boundaries, saying no, and differentiating between desire and obligation is emphasized.

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Sep 12, 2024 • 1h 6min
How to Stop Pleasing Everyone But Yourself | Natalie Lue
Natalie Lue, author of 'The Joy of Saying No' and founder of Baggage Reclaim, discusses her transformative journey from people-pleasing to living authentically. She shares the health crisis that prompted her to prioritize herself and how to separate genuine desires from social obligations. The conversation dives into empowering self-awareness and the importance of setting personal boundaries, encouraging listeners to reclaim their identities and embrace radical self-honor for a more fulfilling life.

Jan 15, 2024 • 28min
On reframing people-pleasing
Guests Natalie Lue and Holly Whitaker discuss reframing people-pleasing behaviors, exploring the origins and impact of this behavior. They delve into the fawn response, societal pressure, and the negative effects of people-pleasing on well-being. The conversation emphasizes setting boundaries, prioritizing self-care, and the importance of personal responsibility in relationships.

Aug 15, 2023 • 47min
215: Five Types of People-Pleasers from The Joy of Saying No with Natalie Lue (Pivot Crossover)
Natalie Lue, a recovering people pleaser, joins the host to discuss the five types of people pleasers, how to build the skill of saying no, and the power of celebrating boundaries. They also delve into resentment and martyrdom in people-pleasing, as well as setting boundaries in family relationships. If you've ever ticked the boxes of being a "Good Person" while making yourself miserable, this episode is for you.

Jun 16, 2025 • 1h 3min
How to stop saying “yes” when you mean “no”, with Natalie Lue
Joined by Natalie Lue, a seasoned writer and founder of Baggage Reclaim, this discussion dives deep into the pitfalls of people-pleasing. Natalie shares the anxiety that fuels the need to say 'yes' even when it feels wrong, impacting self-esteem and well-being. She reveals five ways this behavior manifests, from overachieving to rescuing others. The conversation emphasizes embracing the empowering practice of saying 'no' to foster genuine self-identity and set healthy boundaries.

Mar 16, 2025 • 47min
Tired of Being Taken for Granted? Learn How to Set Boundaries Without Guilt
Natalie Lue, a self-esteem and relationship expert known for her insights on Baggagereclaim.com, transforms from a chronic people pleaser to a boundary-setting advocate. She discusses how people-pleasing hinders authentic relationships and self-worth. Listeners learn to identify subtle people-pleasing behaviors, the importance of understanding desires versus obligations, and practical strategies for setting healthy boundaries. Natalie's journey emphasizes the empowering change that comes from prioritizing personal needs and fostering genuine connections.