

John M. Gottman
Renowned psychologist and relationship researcher known for decades of empirical work on couples and co-founder of the Gottman Institute, author and developer of interventions on marital stability and communication.
Top 5 podcasts with John M. Gottman
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Mar 28, 2024 • 2h 4min
The Gottman Doctors: "Women Tend to Be More Unhappily Married", 96% Of Non-Cuddlers Have An Awful Sex Life & Why One Night Stands Are Dangerous!
Drs. John and Julie Gottman, world-renowned relationship researchers and co-founders of The Gottman Institute, delve into the dynamics of marital happiness. They reveal that intimacy, like kissing and cuddling, is crucial for a healthy relationship. The Gottmans discuss the impact of emotional bids on connection and stress the importance of effective communication in resolving conflicts. Their research indicates women often feel more dissatisfied in marriages, while understanding differing perspectives is key. They also promote their new book on turning conflict into connection.

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Feb 7, 2024 • 1h 8min
How Not to Ruin Your Relationships | Drs. John & Julie Gottman
Join renowned relationship experts John and Julie Gottman as they share over 40 years of groundbreaking research on marital stability. Discover effective communication strategies to tackle conflicts, and learn why constructive criticism may not be as helpful as you think. The Gottmans delve into their Sound Relationship House Theory, emphasizing trust and commitment. They also explore the complexities of betrayal, the unique role of humor, and how mindfulness can enhance emotional connections in relationships.

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Dec 12, 2023 • 32min
The Science of Relationships: This Is Killing Your Relationship
John Gottman, a world-renowned relationship expert, shares invaluable insights on how to nurture and sustain healthy partnerships. He highlights common relationship mistakes and identifies the 'Four Horsemen' that threaten longevity. By emphasizing the physiological aspects of conflict, he explains stress management techniques to improve communication. Listeners will learn actionable tips, like the importance of intentional rituals and structured conversations, to enhance intimacy and strengthen emotional connections.

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Feb 12, 2024 • 45min
Love Lessons from the "Masters of Relationships"
In this engaging discussion, relationship experts John and Julie Schwartz Gottman share insights from their extensive research on romantic partnerships. They introduce the Four Horsemen framework to identify destructive behaviors and suggest strategies for healthy conflict resolution. The couple emphasizes the power of curiosity and gratitude in deepening emotional connections. With anecdotes and practical advice, they encourage couples to engage in meaningful conversations and explore their needs, proving that understanding and communication are key to lasting love.

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Mar 9, 2026 • 36min
Inside the Love Lab with Drs. John & Julie Gottman (Part 2)
Julie Schwartz Gottman, clinical psychologist who teaches couples skills for conflict and repair, and John Gottman, relationship researcher known for decades of empirical work on couples, discuss raising complaints without harm. They cover the Four Horsemen, hidden agendas, the Dream within Conflict technique, separating core needs from flexibles, and how to open a complaint constructively.


