James Sexton, a seasoned divorce attorney and author, shares his deep insights on marriage and relationships. He discusses the intricate dynamics of intimacy and the importance of small gestures in nurturing emotional connections. Humorously tackling topics like infidelity and the concept of soulmates, he emphasizes the need for open communication. Sexton also explores the transformative lessons from divorce and the complexities high achievers face when navigating personal crises, showcasing how love and personal growth can emerge from heartbreak.

In this enlightening discussion, James Sexton, a renowned American divorce lawyer and author, unpacks the tough truths about marriage. He reveals that 99% of divorces stem from a handful of critical issues, with sexual dynamics playing a major role. James also shares surprising insights on prenups, highlighting their potential to safeguard relationships. He emphasizes the importance of open communication and tackling societal myths about love, urging couples to embrace vulnerability for deeper connections.

James Sexton, a world-renowned divorce lawyer and author, dives deep into the common pitfalls leading to marital breakdowns. He explores how 'slippage'—the tendency to prioritize children over each other—can jeopardize relationships. Sexton shares insights on the significant links between sexual satisfaction and divorce, the emotional challenges surrounding breakups, and the transformative journey of acceptance during such times. He emphasizes that open communication, especially regarding prenuptial agreements, can be crucial for maintaining a healthy marriage.

James Sexton, a seasoned divorce attorney and author, brings a unique perspective on love and marriage. He discusses the rising failure rates of marriages and the importance of honest communication to prevent disconnection. Sexton unpacks the value of prenuptial agreements and the benefits of amicable divorces over contentious litigation. He also highlights the emotional aftermath of divorce and the complexities of modern relationships, including the impact of infidelity via social media and navigating co-parenting dynamics.

James Sexton, a divorce lawyer from NYC and author, shares his unique insights into marriage from the frontlines of divorce. He reveals five types of infidelity he frequently encounters and offers practical strategies to prevent affairs. The discussion dives into common marital conflicts, including communication around sex, finances, and parenting. Sexton emphasizes the importance of small gestures and attentiveness in nurturing relationships, proving that proactive care and honest dialogue can strengthen love and connection in marriage.

Divorce lawyer James Sexton discusses the dynamics of domestic violence and infidelity in relationships. They explore the impact of divorce on relationships and the benefits of therapy. The podcast also touches on the dynamics of parents' relationships, comparing relationships to others, blame in marriages, and the purpose and legal implications of marriage. They discuss child support, alimony, cheating, and the meaning of heroism in relationships. Additionally, they explore options outside of divorce and legal aspects of prenuptial agreements and unique alimony payments.

Divorce lawyer James Sexton, with 3 decades of experience, discusses why people grow to hate their loved ones, the flaws in marriage, crafting prenups, and the importance of expressing love. They explore the ethics of representing abhorrent clients, unfairness in the justice system, determining child support, and having difficult conversations in relationships. They emphasize the power of conflict and finding real connections with others.

James Sexton, a renowned divorce lawyer, shares powerful insights on building lasting love and sidestepping the pitfalls of marriage. He discusses the alarming 56% failure rate of first marriages and the importance of preventative maintenance in relationships. Sexton reveals how constant criticism can be toxic and urges couples to navigate vulnerabilities with care. Additionally, he emphasizes the economic aspects of partnerships and encourages candid communication to foster healthier connections. Tune in for invaluable advice to maintain your relationship!

James Sexton, a renowned divorce lawyer, shares his insights on how to maintain a healthy marriage and navigate modern relationship dynamics. He highlights the surprising lack of legal awareness about marriage among many couples. Sexton discusses the impact of social media on infidelity and emphasizes the importance of open, pragmatic conversations about finances and future plans. He advocates for prenuptial agreements as practical tools for building strong relationships, encouraging couples to appreciate the significance of endings to deepen their bonds.

“THIS IS THE MOST LEGALLY SIGNIFICANT THING YOU WILL DO, OTHER THAN DYING.” Marriage is something that is so important to people. In fact, you probably thought about what your wedding would be like as a child. When people go into a marriage they think so much about their venue, their cake, their guest list -- but they never really think about what they are signing up for. Marriage is, legally, one of the most important things you can do. You are signing away half of your life. And there’s nothing wrong with that - if it’s the right person. On this episode of The School of Greatness, I brought on someone who knows so much about people being with the wrong person and how to set yourself up for a great marriage: NYC divorce attorney James Sexton. James has intentionally focused his practice on divorce and family law since his graduation from Fordham Law School. In addition to his Juris Doctorate (Law Degree) he has a Master of Arts degree from New York University where he focused his graduate research on the areas of persuasive speech and propaganda studies. To top it all off, James is the author of the incredibly informative book on marriage, If You’re in My Office, You’re Already Too Late. On this episode he discusses how a lot of people rush into a serious relationship without ironing out all of the details. He shares the insights he’s learned from thousands upon thousands of failed marriages. And he shared why he still believes marriage is a good idea. Learn all of the inside secrets to creating a successful marriage, on Episode 626. Some Questions I Ask: Have there been any clients that were going to get a divorce then decided not to? (9:28) What is the technology of marriage? (10:35) What training would you want people to go through before getting married? (17:12) How long were you married for? (23:24) Do you feel like when marriage gets rough that they should throw in the towel or work through it? (27:36) What are the most important things to find out about your spouse before getting married? (32:08) When a couple is disconnected, what can they do to reconnect? (35:32) What are the top 3 reasons people get divorced? (38:56) What’s the best way to handle financial stress? (40:47) What is the real reason people cheat? (45:48) What does the government dictate in a marriage? (56:47) Would you ever get married again? (1:05:21) Is there a marriage you’ve seen that you admire a lot? (1:13:23) In This Episode You Will Learn: Why people tell more to their lawyers than their therapists (7:29) The real failure rate of marriages (13:16) What inspired James to write his book (20:45) When one client realized her marriage was over (30:02) The thing James loves about divorce law (34:36) The best thing people can do to solve their problems (38:15) The history of marriage (42:00) How to keep your sex life satisfying (49:54) The importance of a prenup (1:00:18) James’ marriage advice to his kids (1:11:06) Get more from Lewis! Pre-order my new book Make Money EasyGet The Greatness Mindset audiobook on SpotifyText Lewis AIYouTubeInstagramWebsiteTiktokFacebookX