On Purpose with Jay Shetty

Divorce Lawyer James Sexton: #1 Conversation Every Couple Should Have Before it’s Too Late (Use THIS 3-Step Script TODAY!)

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Nov 24, 2025
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James Sexton
James Sexton, a renowned divorce lawyer and author of 'How to Stay in Love', shares invaluable insights from his decades of experience. He discusses the alarming truth about the high divorce rates and challenges the notion of fairytale romance. James emphasizes that disconnection, not infidelity, is the real threat to relationships. He advocates for the power of small, consistent acts of care to foster connection and urges couples to communicate unmet needs openly. His practical tips, like structured weekly check-ins, aim to preserve love and intimacy.
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INSIGHT

Question Why You're Getting Married

  • Marriage has a high failure rate, so entering it without reflection is reckless.
  • Ask yourself what problem marriage is solving before you say "I do."
INSIGHT

Disconnection Is The Hidden Threat

  • The root illness behind cheating and money fights is disconnection.
  • Long-term divorce often follows a slow decline in curiosity, gratitude, and presence.
ANECDOTE

Granola As A Relationship Barometer

  • A client felt the marriage die when her partner stopped replacing her favorite granola.
  • Small, repeated omissions signaled to her that he no longer saw or prioritized her.
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