“This Is Why You’re Single!” - Divorce Lawyer on Love, Lies, and Cheating | James Sexton

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Jan 21, 2024

Divorce lawyer James Sexton discusses the dynamics of domestic violence and infidelity in relationships. They explore the impact of divorce on relationships and the benefits of therapy. The podcast also touches on the dynamics of parents' relationships, comparing relationships to others, blame in marriages, and the purpose and legal implications of marriage. They discuss child support, alimony, cheating, and the meaning of heroism in relationships. Additionally, they explore options outside of divorce and legal aspects of prenuptial agreements and unique alimony payments.

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ANECDOTE

Extreme Case of Divorce

James Sexton recounts a case where his client was run over six times by her ex-husband.
This highlights the extreme anger and resentment that can arise in divorce, weaponizing intimacy.

INSIGHT

Demonizing an Ex

James Sexton suggests that demonizing an ex-spouse can be a coping mechanism.
This helps justify the separation from someone deeply loved, processing the loss.

ADVICE

Gratitude in Marriage

Learn from James Sexton's parents' 53-year marriage: show gratitude for your partner's role.
Never compare contributions, whether inside or outside the home, and appreciate each other's value.

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