The Daily Stoic Jessica Lahey on Self-Efficacy and the Virtue of Temperance | Whatever Will Be Will Be
Self-Publishing Success
- Jessica Lahey mentions her co-host, Serena Bowen, a successful self-published romance author.
- Despite selling many books, Bowen will likely never be a New York Times bestseller due to the list's limitations.
Choosing Your Race
- Determine your specific goals and how success is measured in your chosen field.
- Ensure your efforts align with your chosen race and don't get caught up in irrelevant competitions.
Measuring Impact
- Focus on the impact your work has on others as a measure of success.
- Receiving thanks and positive feedback can be more valuable than external accolades.
Ryan reads today’s meditation and talks to Jessica Lahey about her new book The Addiction Inoculation: Raising Healthy Kids in a Culture of Dependence, how a Stoic should measure their success, the discovery of our genetic predisposition to addiction, and more.
Jessica Lahey is the New York Times bestselling author of The Gift of Failure: How the Best Parents Learn to Let Go So Their Children Can Succeed. She has written for The New York Times and The Atlantic and has taught middle and high school for over a decade.
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