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The goop Podcast

Letting Go of Perfect

Apr 1, 2025
Gwyneth Paltrow chats with Thomas Curran, a social psychologist from LSE and author of 'The Perfection Trap.' They dive into the roots of perfectionism and its detrimental effects on mental health, especially among young people. Curran emphasizes that striving for perfection often leads to self-sabotage and dissatisfaction. The conversation encourages embracing vulnerability and redefining success through self-acceptance. They also discuss societal pressures, particularly on women and minorities, and how to find joy in imperfection.
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  • Perfectionism, often viewed as a strength, is unveiled as a detrimental trait leading to mental health struggles and burnout.
  • The impact of social media and societal pressures exacerbates perfectionism among youth, creating a cycle of dissatisfaction and anxiety.

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Understanding Perfectionism

Perfectionism is increasingly recognized as a detrimental trait that manifests in high expectations and self-criticism. Social psychologist Thomas Curran discusses how perfectionism is tied to anxiety and self-sabotage, particularly in high-pressure environments such as personal and professional settings. He emphasizes that rather than being a source of strength, perfectionism often leads to significant mental health struggles, pushing individuals into cycles of anxiety, burnout, and self-doubt. The understanding that perfectionism creates a facade of control, while actually causing deeper issues, is essential for recognizing its harmful impacts.

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