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ParentData with Emily Oster

Self-Care without Candles: Redefining wellness for parents

Nov 30, 2023
Psychiatrist Dr. Pooja Lakshmin critiques the performative and superficial nature of self-care, emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries and achieving long-term well-being. They discuss redefining wellness beyond spa days and scented candles, and explore the impact of births on marital satisfaction. The chapter also delves into the challenges of breastfeeding and the need to recognize alternative options for nourishing oneself. Additionally, they emphasize the importance of not falling for panic-inducing headlines and analyzing the limited significance of a study on excessive television viewing in young children.
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Quick takeaways

  • Real self-care involves setting boundaries and prioritizing what brings us true happiness and fulfillment.
  • Self-care is a personal journey that should be tailored to individual mental health needs and can involve unconventional activities.

Deep dives

Redefining Self-Care

Self-care as parents is often portrayed as indulgent and selfish in the wellness industry. Pooja Lakshman's book, 'Real Self-Care,' challenges this notion by emphasizing the importance of taking care of ourselves as a way to invest in our families and show up for our loved ones. It emphasizes the need to set clear boundaries and prioritize what truly brings us happiness and fulfillment, rather than following societal expectations. Self-care is subjective and should be tailored to individual mental health needs, rather than relying on one-size-fits-all solutions like spa days or scented candles. This conversation explores the misconceptions and guilt associated with self-care, highlighting the importance of making choices aligned with our values and finding what truly nourishes us.

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