
Bossed Up Mindsets and Methods for Managing Up
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Mar 4, 2025 Join Melody Wilding, a professor and licensed therapist, as she shares insights from her book, *Managing Up*. Discover mind-reading strategies to better understand your boss's perspective. Melody discusses the importance of setting healthy boundaries and offers practical scripts for saying no at work. She emphasizes taking initiative as a form of support for your supervisor and reframes office politics as crucial relational skills. Tune in to learn how managing up can lead to greater workplace satisfaction and career advancement.
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Managing Up Is A Learnable Skill
- Managing up is a learnable skill separate from personal shortcomings like people-pleasing and overthinking.
- Developing influence and upward feedback abilities solves many perceived personal inadequacies at work.
Ask Precise Questions To Get Alignment
- Ask specific questions to uncover your manager's hidden motivations and priorities instead of accepting vague answers.
- Decode communication styles and share your own so managing up becomes a two-way partnership.
Teach Others How To Treat You
- Teach people how to treat you by changing your habitual responses, like not replying instantly or over-apologizing.
- Small signaling changes shift how colleagues perceive your availability and seriousness.







