Feel Better, Live More with Dr Rangan Chatterjee What Every Parent Should Know with Philippa Perry #75
Sep 25, 2019
Join psychotherapist and author Philippa Perry as she shares invaluable insights on enhancing relationships with children and the importance of connection. Delve into why cultural norms can conflict with our parenting instincts and the potential harm of approaches like 'cry it out.' Discover the impact of technology on our interactions and the vital role of authenticity. Philippa emphasizes that repairing mistakes is crucial for deepening bonds and offers practical tips for improving all human relationships. This conversation is a treasure trove for anyone looking to connect better!
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Cultural Interference in Parenting
- Human culture, unlike other mammals, often interferes with natural parenting instincts.
- Language and cultural norms can distort instinctive parenting patterns, creating a need for guidance.
Responding to Children's Emotions
- Respond to children's underlying emotions instead of fixating on the literal content of their words.
- Focus on validating their feelings rather than arguing with their expressed desires.
The Importance of Listening
- Rangan Chatterjee realized his attempts to fix his wife's problems were unwanted; she simply desired to be heard.
- This reflects a common theme in the book: the importance of listening and acknowledging feelings in any relationship.
