Small Ways to Improve Your Everyday Life Right Now | Gretchen Rubin

May 4, 2020

Gretchen Rubin, a celebrated author and lawyer known for her best-selling books on happiness, joins the conversation with practical strategies for everyday life. She emphasizes the importance of decluttering to boost mental well-being and offers insights on managing family dynamics and technology use. Rubin discusses the balance between self-care and ambition, encouraging a compassionate approach to expectations. Her lighthearted tips on treating oneself without overindulgence make this chat both engaging and relatable.

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ANECDOTE

Gretchen's Pandemic Experience

Gretchen Rubin realized her personality is well-suited to staying home during the pandemic.
She appreciates having her daughter home from college and enjoys not traveling.

INSIGHT

Relationships in Pandemic Times

Relationships are key to happiness, but pandemic routines disrupt them.
It's crucial to find new ways to connect, even with whimsical Zoom interactions.

ADVICE

Prioritizing Relationships

Prioritize relationships over rigid routines, especially during stressful times.
Be flexible and accepting of others' preferences, like a husband's loud work calls.

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I call Gretchen Rubin the "Swiss Army Knife for Happiness." Present her with a problem, and she will flood you with practical, customized solutions. I love having Gretchen on this show not only because she's smart and funny and we're friends, but also because she provides some compelling counterprogramming. Most of our guests come from the meditation world, but Gretchen approaches happiness from a very different angle. She's a lawyer by training - she began her career clerking for Supreme Court Justice Sandra Day O'Connor - who went on to write a series of books that examine small, doable ways to boost our happiness in everyday life. Her books include her breakout memoir The Happiness Project, and then follow-on bestsellers such as The Four Tendencies (which is a fascinating look at how different kinds of people form habits). In this interview, we explore a bunch of ways to improve your day-to-day life in this pandemic. We talk about: family relationships, decluttering, setting priorities, managing your relationship to technology, treating yourself without overindulging, and going easy on yourself versus expecting more from yourself. Where to find Gretchen Rubin online: Website: https://gretchenrubin.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/gretchenrubin Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GretchenRubin Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gretchenrubin/ Book Mentioned: Outer Order, Inner Calm by Gretchen Rubin / https://gretchenrubin.com/books/outer-order-inner-calm/about-the-book We've been nominated for two Webby awards. If you love and want to support our work, please vote for us via links in the episode description. Vote for us in the health & fitness app category. / https://vote.webbyawards.com/PublicVoting#/2020/apps-mobile-and-voice/apps-mobile-sites-general/health-fitness Vote for us in the voice category. / https://vote.webbyawards.com/PublicVoting#/2020/apps-mobile-and-voice/general-voice/health-fitness-lifestyle Other Resources Mentioned: Susan Kaiser Greenland / https://www.susankaisergreenland.com/ Some Good News / https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOe_y6KKvS3PdIfb9q9pGug The Four Tendencies Quiz / https://quiz.gretchenrubin.com/ Additional Resources: Ten Percent Happier Live: https://tenpercent.com/live Coronavirus Sanity Guide: https://www.tenpercent.com/coronavirussanityguide We want to deeply thank and recognize teachers, warehouse workers, grocery and food delivery workers, and healthcare workers for the essential role that they play in our lives. For FREE access to the app and hundreds of meditations and resources visit https://tenpercent.com/care Full Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/gretchen-rubin-244