Managing a household with ADHD - with special guest Ryan Mayer (Ep. 5)
Oct 21, 2024
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Ryan Mayer, a certified ADHD coach, joins Marie and Jesse to discuss the unique challenges of managing a household with ADHD. He introduces his engaging 'Folding with Friends' initiative, promoting community support in completing chores. The trio covers creative strategies like visual reminders, gamifying tasks, and flexible routines to spark productivity. Ryan emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance and customized approaches for ADHD, including managing smartphone distractions and using tools like Lao Life to support family dynamics.
The 'Folding with Friends' initiative highlights how body doubling and social interaction can make household chores more engaging and manageable for individuals with ADHD.
Utilizing visual reminders and breaking tasks into smaller steps can significantly alleviate the challenges faced by those with ADHD in managing daily responsibilities.
Deep dives
Body Doubling for Household Chores
Body doubling is an effective technique for managing household tasks, especially for those with ADHD. One co-host shares their experience with a session called 'Folding with Friends,' where participants engage in folding laundry together, enhancing focus and productivity. During these sessions, participants not only tackle laundry but also enjoy conversation, providing motivation to complete tasks. This approach demonstrates that combining social interaction with mundane chores can significantly improve task management and efficiency.
Finding Motivation Through Dopamine
Listening to stimulating content, such as podcasts or music, helps individuals with ADHD manage tedious household chores by providing needed dopamine. Engaging in listening while performing chores creates a distraction that allows for more effortless task completion. Participants discuss how they utilize this strategy to enhance their motivation while doing chores like lawn maintenance and dishwashing. By associating enjoyable listening experiences with tasks, the chores become more bearable and, at times, even enjoyable.
Visual Reminders for Task Efficiency
Using visual cues, like large signs or sticky notes, can aid individuals in remembering household responsibilities and fostering effective communication. One guest shares how employing a 'clean' note on the dishwasher prompts them to empty it, reducing misunderstandings in their partnership. This method addresses common issues arising from ADHD, such as time blindness and memory lapses, and sets clear expectations without leading to frustration. By integrating visual reminders into everyday tasks, individuals can better navigate their responsibilities.
Rethinking Morning Routines and Tasks
ADHD-friendly strategies can transform chaotic morning routines into manageable processes. The discussion highlights the need for breaking down morning tasks into smaller, actionable items, which can alleviate overwhelming feelings. Techniques such as preparing for the next day in advance and defining specific tasks visually can alleviate stress and improve organization. Clients are encouraged to recognize the multifaceted nature of morning tasks to avoid frustration and improve focus.
How does ADHD make managing a household difficult?
In this episode co-hosts Marie and Jesse with guest Ryan Mayer, discuss effective strategies for managing household tasks and routines with ADHD.
The conversation centers around Ryan's 'Folding with Friends' initiative, which uses body doubling to make mundane chores like folding laundry more engaging. They explore various techniques to tackle daily tasks, like using visual reminders and gamifying routine activities. They emphasize the importance of accepting one's unique methods and creating an environment that suits their ADHD needs. Ryan also shares insights from his coaching experience, advocating for personalized strategies to navigate life with ADHD.
00:00 Welcome to Distractables
00:35 Introducing Ryan Mayer: ADHD Coach
00:48 ADHD at Home: Managing Household Chores
02:03 Body Doubling: The Power of Folding with Friends
03:19 Making Chores Fun: Tips and Tricks
11:30 The Importance of Acceptance and Self-Understanding
12:42 ADHD Coaching: Common Struggles and Solutions