Do You F*cking Mind? 236. Determine your own value and never look for it in other places again
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Jul 27, 2023 AI Snips
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Perceived vs Actual Value
- Your self-value is often based on how others perceive you, which can distort self-respect and care.
- Perceived value varies, but your actual value is self-determined and should not fluctuate based on others' views.
Zahavian Signal Theory
- The Zahavian signal theory states honesty requires cost; costly displays prove genuine traits.
- People and animals signal value by showing costly effort, sacrifices, or skills to reflect authentic worth.
Set Your Own Value Standard
- Determine your own value and behave consistently regardless of who you interact with.
- Set your standards to teach others how to treat you and maintain self-respect and confidence.