How to Value Yourself in Relationships

If you get something for free all the time, you're not going to value it as much as if you had paid for it. You have to really pay attention to how you behave around people. If someone's not returning the effort, then it's likely that they're not valuing what you're putting down. Now you can call them out on it and you can bring it up. But in a lot of situations, you may never get what you want from this person because they just don't value you enough.