The Zahavian Signal

When you recognize that you are providing something, then you start to feel valuable. If someone's not saying your value, you don't stand there and beg them to see your worth. You appreciate that maybe for whatever reason, cruel or not cruel, they just don't see it because it's actually of no value to them. The energy that it takes to get someone to see your value could be spent doing like way better things, way better things. And when you put that energy and that time and that investment into yourself and earning something, working hard for something, you know, sacrificing something is a good thing.