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The Psychology of your 20s

141. How to get over someone you can't stop thinking about

Nov 7, 2023
Struggling to get over someone? This discussion dives into the emotional turmoil of heartbreak and how it can feel all-consuming. Discover the need for emotional closure and learn self-provided techniques to achieve it. The science behind attachment styles sheds light on why we obsess. Explore the benefits of a no-contact strategy and how it can catalyze healing. With practical tips sprinkled throughout, the conversation encourages embracing self-love and focusing on personal growth for a brighter future.
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Quick takeaways

  • Emotional closure is crucial for moving on from someone, as our brains need a clear narrative to conclude that chapter and stop searching for answers.
  • Our tendency to romanticize the past and focus on positive memories hinders our ability to let go and elongates the healing process.

Deep dives

Lack of Emotional Closure

When we cannot stop thinking about someone from our past, it is often because we lack emotional closure. Our brains need to create a structured narrative to understand why the relationship ended and to conclude that chapter. Without closure, our minds remain uncertain and keep searching for answers, leading to persistent thoughts and memories of that person.

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