S33 E5: "Build the Life You Want" by Arthur C. Brooks and Oprah Winfrey
Sep 22, 2023
15:44
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Harvard professor Arthur C. Brooks and Oprah Winfrey discuss happiness and its pillars: family, friendship, work, and faith. They explore managing emotions through techniques like journaling, meditation, prayer, and therapy. They also emphasize the importance of pursuing the four pillars for a fulfilling life.
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Happiness consists of enjoyment, satisfaction, and meaning, which can be enhanced by adding people and creating memorable experiences.
To build a happier life, focus on faith, family, friendship, and finding joy in work by earning success and serving others rather than pursuing money or status.
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Understanding the components of happiness
Happiness is not just a feeling; it consists of three psychological phenomena: enjoyment, satisfaction, and meaning. Enjoyment is enhanced by adding people and creating memorable experiences. Satisfaction can be achieved, but it requires managing both what you have and what you want. Meaning in life comes from understanding the purpose and direction of your life, as well as why you feel alive.
Happiness as a direction, not a destination
Happiness is not something to be obtained but rather a lifelong journey towards becoming happier. Negative experiences and emotions are necessary for growth and understanding the purpose of life. Managing emotions involves being aware of them through practices like journaling, meditation, and therapy. By putting space between emotions and reactions, individuals can choose how to respond and make their emotions work for them.
Building the four pillars of a happier life
To build a happier life, it is important to focus on four pillars: faith, family, friendship, and work. Faith does not necessarily refer to religious beliefs but rather a sense of something larger than oneself. Family relationships, even if challenging, provide intense love and should not be easily abandoned. True friendships are more valuable than transactional or superficial connections. Finally, finding joy in work comes from earning success and serving others, rather than pursuing money, status, or prestige.
You can get happier. And getting there will be the adventure of your lifetime. Today, Harvard professor Arthur C. Brooks shares a few tips on how to do it from his new book — co-written with the one and only Oprah Winfrey — "Build the Life You Want."