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How to Say No: Dr. Sunita Sah on Defying Social Pressure and Building Confidence

Jan 6, 2025
Dr. Sunita Sah, a behavioral scientist and author of "Defy: The Power of No in a World That Demands Yes," dives into the psychology of decision-making and the struggle to assert boundaries. She discusses 'insinuation anxiety,' which makes saying no so challenging. Moreover, Dr. Sah emphasizes the significance of confidence in navigating authority and embracing defiance aligned with personal values. Listeners gain valuable insights on overcoming societal pressures, making authentic choices, and the art of assertive communication.
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  • Dr. Sunita Sah emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and saying no to promote personal growth and self-expression.
  • The podcast redefines defiance as a constructive act of aligning with one's values, empowering individuals to resist harmful social pressures.

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The Impact of Compliance on Personal Growth

Many individuals struggle with the ingrained habit of pleasing others instead of voicing their own wants and needs. From a young age, messages about obedience and compliance shape behavior, often suppressing true self-expression. This tendency can lead to difficulties in asserting boundaries, particularly in professional environments where power dynamics are at play. By recognizing the importance of setting boundaries and learning to say no, individuals can promote personal growth and develop a more authentic sense of self.

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