We Can Do Hard Things 95. Why Elizabeth Gilbert Disappeared & What She Came Back to Say
May 12, 2022
In this heartfelt discussion, Elizabeth Gilbert, bestselling author of 'Eat Pray Love', reflects on her journey through grief after the loss of her close friend, Rayya. She describes grieving as a 'fist fight' and shares how she found solace in spiritual practices and community. The conversation explores themes of identity transformation, the complexities of relationships, and the importance of setting boundaries. Elizabeth also emphasizes the power of embracing surrender and trusting a higher power for personal growth and healing.
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Rayya's Death
- Rayya’s death was a "fist fight," refusing to surrender even in her final moments.
- Liz honored Rayya's willfulness by playing David Bowie and maintaining a silent presence.
The Nature of Grief
- Grief doesn't follow a prescribed path; it’s unique to each individual.
- Liz’s grief was vibrant, not depressive, marked by intense emotions and a sense of rejoicing.
Coping Mechanisms
- Liz coped with grief by immersing herself in work and travel, delaying the full impact of the loss.
- Seeking solace in a new relationship proved detrimental, highlighting the tendency to avoid deep emotional processing.
